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I really want to like lemmy, but it's difficult. I'm new to all this fediverse thingy, and I might just have old habits and perceptions how things should work but... I keep seeing the same posts more than once, iOS experience is not that good really, sometimes I see dead posts from 2 years ago for some reason, despite having subscribed to like 30 communities there aren't that many new posts to read.

Part of it probably that subreddits had millions of people so a lot of posts every minute, but it still feels underwhelming.

It's not as doomscrolly. Maybe I should find something else to waste my time on haha

What is your experience with lemmy? Maybe I just do things wrong. Let me know

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[–] milkytoast@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

i mean so far, I'm enjoying it. sure, the community isn't as large, but that's mostly a good thing. on reddit, if i made a post, it would be like a 25% chance to get hundreds of comments, and a 75% chance to get none. here, I've gotten a few, high quality responses on every question post I've made. i do miss the "auto hide read posts" feature, but maybe that'll get added some day

[–] adj16@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (8 children)

You can hide read posts here! In the web app settings for your profile:

[–] adriator@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Is there a way to stop the endless loading of posts on the website? Because every time I try to click a post, it moves down because a new post loaded, and this happens every ten seconds, constantly.

[–] CosmicSploogeDrizzle@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's a bug that wasnt an issue when the community was smaller. Last I heard they will replace it with a refresh icon that pops up at the top when new posts are available.

[–] Quartz@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Oh thank God is a bug, I really thought it was a feature of the site.

[–] b34k@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

It’s amazing what kinda bugs can be exposed in your system when your user base expands by orders of magnitude overnight

[–] instamat@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

Thank jeebus. I was getting all fussy thinking it was a me/my phone/my browser problem.

[–] adj16@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

I’ve heard that one is just a bug. Hopefully they’re working on it. Mlem (the iOS app) seems to have it handled, but it does crash a lot, and it’s frustrating to lose your scroll progress. I think we just have to wait it out in these early days πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

[–] atp2112@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I also don't seem to have that problem with Jerboa.

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[–] briongloid@aussie.zone 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Fediverse currently reminds me of Reddit from 10 years ago in frequency of content. There is something nice about not being in the rat race, less toxicity.

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[–] nosurf@unilem.org 2 points 2 years ago

I have a similar experience, but its like a user base of 200k vs idk how many million on reddit. There wont be an infinite amount of posts until lemmy grows more.

I think only 1 percent of all users on lemmy and reddit post. So its 2k active posters vs 60k active reddit posters (assuming reddit has 6m).

The sorting has been bad i also see dead posts but overall im enjoying lemmy more than i had reddit in the later years (joined 2010).

[–] bizzle@lemmy.moorefam.net 2 points 2 years ago

I mean, you're being realistic, and nobody can fault you for that. The jank is going to be too much for some people, they'll come here maybe but won't stick around. Other people will come and think that the positive aspects are more important than the negative ones and they'll migrate.

I'm a FOSS nerd and advertising makes me physically sick, so I'm more than willing to put up with the frustrating things about Lemmy.

My one advice is, if you want to see more content then post it.

[–] Beardliest@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think it's just going to take some getting used to. I've been riding the struggle bus for the last couple of days but it's getting better. I'm just excited to be somewhere new for a change. The echo chambers were getting pretty bad.

Mlem (iOS app) isn't great but I'm sure it will get better. The official reddit app is atrocious.

I was on reddit for over 12 years. I mostly lurked because my comments were never seen by the time I saw a thread. That's not super important tot me but I'd like to have more of a voice. Sure, things are easy now, but back in the day it was a pain in the ass in some regards. I'm still shocked the search sucks so bad over there. Give it some time to grow and see what happens.

[–] waz@feddit.uk 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Coming from Apollo I’m quite liking the mlem app. It’s already doing the things I want it to do.

[–] macarthur_park@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Same! It just needs the ability to collapse posts or a compact mode for the feed. And to be a bit less crash-ey. But it’s in beta I expect stability and features to improve.

[–] zeerooth@lemmy.antemeridiem.xyz 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What I'd recommend in your case is sorting the posts by "hot" instead of "active" which is the default setting. Posts get up the active sorting whenever somebody comments on them or upvotes (I think?), even if they are very old, whereas hot should only show you new and currently popular posts. You'll still see the post that you've already seen and a setting for that is clearly missing, but it should still be an improvement.

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[–] mo_ztt@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Honestly man, as much as I 100% agree on the UI difficulties, it's like a breath of fresh air. There's good music posted, people posted books and I looked and really wanted to read them. It's more human. There's this tiny little handful of content here, but it's not all same-y and in-joke-y and weird.

I'm not trying to hate on reddit, I still go to reddit for news because of more or less what you're talking about (the weird sorting in the newsfeed here and the lack of certain content). But what I like about here is that there are nerdy people, there's real content, there's not this weird hivemind and endless dopamine content. The great stuff about reddit was always the in-depth storytelling and unique content, to me, not just the gratification aspect of everything working right and new content popping up. I'm happy with Lemmy despite the hiccups because it seems like it's getting back to that.

[–] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's tricky at times, but I'm really liking it after a few days. It's a bit chaotic but in a fun way I think.

If you haven't seen it yet, check out https://browse.feddit.de for a way to search for more communities

Hope you start to enjoy it more :-)

[–] Hazen@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I really just want a good r/all functionality.

[–] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

If you filter to All and sort by Active does that not more or less do the job? I never really used /r/All so I'm maybe not the best judge.

[–] Azzu@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

As someone who used /r/all before, what you say is exactly the same as I'm used to. Maybe sort by "Hot" though. Reddits algorithm is somewhere between "Hot" and "Active" here. Active is too slow, hot is too fast.

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[–] Quartz@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

One complaint I have is that I can't post a comment without having to click "Post". In many applications, Reddit being one of them, you are able to use the hot key Ctrl+Enter and it will post/send whatever you wrote.

[–] ruckblack@partizle.com 0 points 2 years ago

My biggest issue is that it's so difficult to see content from other instances. I understand it isn't feasible for every instance to index everything that's out there, but I definitely think we need a much better solution. I'm good with this stuff and it's a pain in the ass for me, your typical social media user will not jump through these hoops.

[–] CanadaPlus 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Most of that is just a function of smallness. I'm not sure there's a Reddit alternative that works for post doomscrolling yet.

I've spent many hours reading comments on here already, though.

[–] MyNameIsSkittles@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 years ago

I'm liking it better here because I don't feel compelled to scroll as much. I get tired of it after 20 min and go do something productive. Probably better for my mental health overall lol

[–] gravalicious@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

Be the change you want to see. Start posting in the communities you enjoy for others to check out. If you're here just to scroll and not contribute, Lemmy won't improve quickly. If you wait until it gets to be another Reddit, you're not helping out the community.

[–] Azzu@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 years ago

I mean the user base is less than 1% of reddits. So of course you're going to have less posts. You're relying on people for browsing, you either can chose to be content with how much people are posting, or get to posting yourself.

[–] sorrybookbroke@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Yeah, that's been my experiance too. The platform only has about 12,000 active users on it. Mastadon, in comparison, has 1.2 million active daily users. it's alot more than previously, but still nothing in the grand scheme of things. More people are coming in though and it is still growing but at this rate, what I believe to be 3,000 new active users in a day, it'll take a bit.

In the mean time, thank you for taking the initiative and posting. To others be the change you want to see, try posting a bit.

[–] zombiepete@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I definitely am having a tough time making the transition. It still feels a bit chaotic to me.

[–] pampoon@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

I was the same way the first couple of days after starting, but I can tell you that after a week into using the platform it has gotten a lot less chaotic. I have learned most of the basics and figured out what are the features and what are the bugs, so I’m not so lost all the time trying to figure out how it all is supposed to work.

And I’m really enjoying it! It feels like a fresh start, and it keeps me engaged in the community and helping to build a better place for anyone else who is looking for alternatives. It gets better!

[–] orbit@beehaw.org 0 points 2 years ago (3 children)

The reality is that there was/is no reddit alternative and right now we're all in this transitory phase where we're all looking for a new home. We'll all just have to wait for the dust to settle. Lemmy isn't perfect but is improving and additionally other alternatives like kbin and tildes are in the works.

To your larger point, much of what you're feeling is the abrupt break in habits. I've been using the gap to develop more positives ones, and it's been great.

[–] Oslypsis@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

A thought came to my mind when reading your comment.

Instead of finding a new home, let's make lemmy our new home. Let's try to populate lemmy more, get its activity up, and post more than we would've on reddit (since we have less users, we would need more posts per user), so it can stand a chance at being a reddit competitor.

[–] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Yes, make homes! we need so much more hardware, while personal instances may not be a good idea, we are so short on compute that if you are inclined run your own instance, bring your friends!

The experience on smaller faster instances is already comparable, the content flow, really not bad either though it takes about an hour of finding and subbing to the communities you want and a day for your instance to really start grabbing the content for you.

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[–] redditrefugee@lemmy.one 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (11 children)

I've been told my handle should work on all the lemmys but so far it only works on lemmy.one. I tried logging in with this at lemmy.world and beehaw and it didn't work. I tried creating a new login on both of those and it also didn't work. I want to like it but I'm confused and frustrated. I'll give it some time and see where the dust settles as you said. Call me old fashioned though but I just don't think shitposting on a forum should be so damn complicated.

[–] Z_ford_prefect@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

You don't need to create multiple Lemmy accounts. You can search for and find and join subs from lemmy.world on your Lemmy.one account. it's not instantly intuitive coming from Reddit, but once you make the connection to the other subs on different instances its established for you

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[–] New_account@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Agree that it shouldn't be so complicated. I see that as a major flaw of the platform that will curtail adoption, but who knows, maybe one will win out over the others?

In any case, my understanding is that you can't log into the other instances with your username from lemmy.one, but you can read posts and interact with communities on different lemmy sites. For instance, I'm commenting from lemmy.world on a post you made using lemmy.one at a community hosted on lemmy.ml, but we can both read each other's comments, and so can people that signed up on other instances like beehaw.org.

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[–] meldrik@lemmy.wtf 0 points 2 years ago

Lemmy is still very early in it's development and there's only two full time working on it afaik.

[–] mvu@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

I'm actually enjoying the lack of doomscroll.

Since Lemmy isn't built to trap you for hours on end to get that sweet ad revenue, you can just run out of new stuff to see and then stop lemmying. Bust open the eReader or get to that backlog of bookmarked articles.

[–] statlerwaldorf@vlemmy.net 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I remember HATING Reddit after the great Digg migration. The information was presented in a different way and the discussions seemed to be the focus rather than the linked content. It took a while to get used to it and I'm feeling a bit of the same here. There are a ton of similarities that are already here, so it's not as jarring and things are improving every day.

I feel like I'm interacting more here than I did on Reddit for a long time. By the time anything showed up on my feed over there, it was 1 day old, had 5000 comments, and had devolved into memes.

[–] FlaxPicker@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Honestly that is the main reason i became a lurker on reddit, why comment? if im on /r/all then anything i could think to comment has already been commented by someone else most of the time if you scroll down enough. It was really only the smaller niche subs that i was able to engage with.

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[–] ch00f@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I keep seeing the same posts more than once

In my experience, it sorts by "active" which keeps showing the same 5 posts. Try sorting by "hot" instead.

[–] RetroEvolute@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The default can also be set from your profile settings page.

I think most of the issues we're all running into are just growing pains. The sorting algorithms will be improved, performance and other bugs will be addressed. Most of us have been here for a day or so. πŸ˜… I'm going to stick with it for a while longer and see what happens. If another service springs up that seems better, I'll check that out too.

Just can't really support Reddit right now...

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[–] YahahaYouFoundMe@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I agree, I think it has a lot of potential, but the difficulty in discovering other communities is a barrier that most won't want to cross. Having to manually search a specific string in order to subscribe is just too cumbersome. I hope that improves. I think if discoverability was better, everyone would be here and interacting. But it's too different that I could see most giving it a quick try and then giving up. Im an addict though so I'm muddling through it. I think people here don't really realize what the average user is like, and how most don't even know that third party apps exist.

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[–] thesalamander@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

It's far from perfect, but I'm taking a stand.

Half the reason I used Reddit was to cure boredom. I've decided to find other things to do. The other main reason I loved to check in was to make sure I don't miss big news. So far, Lemmy seems to scratch that itch. It'll take a long time for niche communities to establish, but I'll just deal with that for now. Maybe I'll just go back to some old forums for that purpose.

[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

I like it. So far my only issue is the convoluted manual search for communities, but that'll be a non issue as we spread out and get everything linked up. The other stuff is just bugs, like phone pics getting turned sideways when posting.

Overall I like it. I prefer a more intimate community and quality discussion as opposed to one line reactions comments and petty confrontation.

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