cactusfangs

joined 1 year ago
[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

To see my kids reactions. They’re still young so Christmas magic is very real.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A toaster that has a camera to see how toasted/burnt the bread is getting and screams louder and more desperately the darker the bread gets.

An AI flower vase that insults you based on how often and which type of flowers put in it.

AI light up earrings that turn on when you lie.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

Impressive list. These are like things you say to a tech bro to make them horny.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It still sucks when it’s not intentional. I haven’t founded a business, but I sometimes get left out of high level meetings on projects that I’m leading.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

“Women are weak.” Women’s strength is dismissed and underestimated.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

Or doesn’t take you seriously by doing this: “doesn’t like your answer so goes behind your back to ask a male colleague who gives the same reply which is respected”

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

“Oh sorry I forgot to add you to [meeting about thing you own]”

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago

Loose leaf tea and dark chocolate. I drink tea every day and drinking something nice puts me in a good mood, so I’m definitely going to do myself that favor. And dark chocolate is a delicious way to prevent unhealthy dessert cravings.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

As others have said, respect her and get to know her. Make a huge effort to communicate well right now. It might seem like it’s a bit early, but look up fair fighting rules now. Understanding and internalizing those rules helped me to not get in fights because I had a good frame of reference that we were a team and to not blame each other but work together and communicate early and often. It’s much better to diffuse negative feelings early than let them fester to become an angry burst or resentment. You said she’s more reserved, and that’s ok. If you are steadily open and communicating with her, she will open up over time. Remember to be her friend too.

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