Ugh. And I liked him as an author. Why can’t it be a crappy writer instead? Now I’m gonna feel bad every time I read one of his works. What an asshole.

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 41 points 3 months ago

Some people shouldn’t have children.

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Technically they're littermates...

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 23 points 5 months ago

Well, as a product of rape myself, I can tell you that I am a firm supporter of abortion. I absolutely should have been aborted, but here we are. Pro-birthers are unbelievably selfish assholes.

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 28 points 7 months ago

If you were a man. Women were committed over far less

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 29 points 7 months ago

My favorite is the “delusions of adequacy”, that one had to sting! The six-pack one though sounds like possible ADHD or some other learning disorder - your child is smart enough, but lacks the ability to do well

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 44 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I fully believe this. Tesla has absolutely abysmal labor practices.

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 24 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Good lord, the sheer amount of “nuh-uh!!” in the comments is insane (and yet also fully expected). It’s the same shit I’ve heard again and again and again in the blue collar industry where I work, as though just because some guy hasn’t personally witnessed one specific incident that somehow discrimination against women magically doesn’t exist, instead of coming to the realization that they’re just not seeing it, probably because they aren’t looking for it.

Open your eyes, gentlemen. Discrimination holds many forms, more than you’d think. Pay more attention to what’s going on around you at work. Maybe actually talk to the one woman in your workplace, and then actually listen to what she has to say (and to what she isn’t saying).

You want to prove that somehow your workplace is the exception to the rule? Then make it that way. Correct hiring practices that bias towards men (and this starts with how job ads are written up, by the way). Change how pay is structured in your company to a fixed, listed scale that is open and readily available to all employees. Have clear, consistent pathways to promotion to correct the gender bias. Allow for flexibility on working hours, or remote work.

And if you can’t do any of these things because you aren’t on a position to, then at least start the conversation. Be an ally. Recognize discriminatory practices when you see them, and push for change. In the end, you’ll benefit, too.

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world to c/snek@lemmy.world

Snek was found in BC, Canada. Said hello to new frend and then said goodbye.

Snek was maybe 14” long? My friend says it was probably a garter snake.

Edited to mention that there doesn’t seem to be a way to post videos in this instance, so I took a screenshot of a frame instead

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 39 points 10 months ago

Jfc America, get your shit together.

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Obligatory not-my-cat. This is Holly, the new smol. She’s eating the stick end of a feather toy. I’m told it’s the tastiest part.

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 34 points 10 months ago

Hahaha! They don’t give a fuck

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 32 points 11 months ago

1, 2, 4, 8, and 9.

3, 6, and 7 require too much physical ability to be true. 5 and 10 are both plausible, but I doubt they’d be a headline.

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

I know it’s yikes. It felt icky to write it out, but I did because its true. It’s well documented that women are far more likely to be “running the house” even when working full time. So many articles, podcasts, and books have been written about it. There’s even a comic floating around the internet. (https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/)

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_an_unfair_division_of_labor_hurts_your_relationship

[-] clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world 72 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

So much this. Working all day is exhausting. So is keeping the house. Having to do both all of the time when you have an able-bodied partner? Gross. No one wants an adult child as a partner.

Men have no idea just how exhausting it is to have to carry all of that weight. Well, some do, I’m sure. I haven’t met any, personally, but that doesn’t mean they’re not out there.

Having a partner that is an actual partner gives you the room to breathe and relax. And honestly, that is the real turn on.

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