I feel you. It's funny, I stopped playing soulsborne games after ds1 through 3. Gonna get back into them soon. I think Ds2: SOTFS would be cool to check out if you can get it on sale. I think the diehard community even does "return to drangleic" events that make the pvp/co-op more active as well.
DS2 made some aspects of the combat a bit more deliberate than the first game. It added a stat called adaptability that affected rolling. Back stab fishing was also made less viable. Magic wasn't as insanely OP akin to something like dark orb spam in Ds1 but still pretty powerful. Don't really like soul level (overall level of your character based on total souls collected rather than matching you pvp wise based on your stat level)
where is this image from?