[-] emma@beehaw.org 22 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Jewish schools in Europe are closed today. Synagogues and other places where Jews gather have been evaluating the risk they face and acting as they need to. Some might say that the claims Hamas has called for a "Day of Rage" today are internet rumours but we have to take them seriously because the consequences of failing to are so severe.

There will be calls for jihad against Jews. There always are. As emboldened as militants and wanna-bes are by Hamas', as they see it, success in killing Jews (and yes, I chose that designation specifically and intentionally) last weekend, it won't be different now. There have been and will be calls for jihad against us.

When Palestine attacks Israel, antisemitic violence around the world increases. When Israel attacks Palestine, antisemitic violence around the world increases. This is what diaspora Jews live with.

Bomb threats on diaspora Jewish organisations started last Saturday. Diaspora Jews have been on high alert all week.

The majority of people at those demonstrations will be peaceful. But some won't. Some will use the gatherings to foment violence against diaspora Jews. There's no right answer in this. If you're affected and chaffing at the denial of your right to shout in numbers, please consider that this ban will very likely save lives, especially in France. Please don't dismiss this just because those lives are diaspora Jews and you don't much care about us.

Edit: Notices the number of people who have convinced themselves that putting French Jews in danger is alright, cause you know, Palestine. Terror attacks against Jews in France is a thing, you know. Done in the name of freeing Palestine, as if French Jews had the power to change anything in another country.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 20 points 10 months ago

Israel unilaterally withdrew from Gaza in 2005. Olmert was working on a plan to withdraw from West Bank next.

If militant Palestinian leadership were willing to live in peace with Israel there would be peace. They've refused so many opportunities to become their own independent state because it requires allowing Israel to also exist in peace.

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submitted 10 months ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/politics@beehaw.org

Thought this might be of interest to some of the readers of this section. It asks questions for which there are no clear answers around issues of acting for change. It brings in disability & employment, discrimination against women and LGBTQ+ (screenwriter/director is a trans woman), art as a means of healing and of challenging conventions of beauty, loss, privilege, corruption and the things those who've been corrupted do to keep themselves in power and how they continue to get away with it, and the importance of working together. There's a pivotal scene nearing the end showing what people can do that's based on a real event in Thailand.

It's intelligent, articulate and powerful.

Not Me, 14 episodes 45 minutes each. Thai series are usually uploaded in 4 bits per episode, which confuses people at first. You'll get the hang of it soon enough. Available free to watch with English and other language subtitles on GMMTV's official youtube channel.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 26 points 10 months ago

Same-day delivery is such a recent expectation. To call it a "thing of the past" may be accurate as in "no longer available" but it's also misleading with its unintentional implication of a longer history. If it was just a brief blip, we'll manage just fine. Livable cities and a livable planet have to be our priority.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 37 points 11 months ago

I have zero interest in spending that much time wading through crap just so I can have the personal decision to block it.

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Shanah tovah (beehaw.org)
submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by emma@beehaw.org to c/spirituality@beehaw.org

May your new year be sweet and good.

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submitted 11 months ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/disability@beehaw.org

imma feeling marginally sorry for myself as i got my covid and flu boosters this week and the extra work that makes for my body makes it grumpy. but still, am vaxxed so that's good.

how's everyone else doing?

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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by emma@beehaw.org to c/technology@beehaw.org

These and Instagram seem to be the main locii of conversation for a topic I'm interested in. Instagram is a no because Meta. Just trying to keep myself off of the big data mining sites and search results are a bit of a hot mess.

Edit: Please, no more splaining how there isn’t any privacy on the net. There’s what can be scraped, what can be gathered from cookies (which I’m as careful as I can be about), and there’s what we make it easy for corporations to collect by using their products. I’m asking about the latter for Discord and Tumblr. It’s not that I’m unaware of the general problem (otherwise I wouldn’t be asking), it’s just that I’m out of the loop on specifics for these sites.

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submitted 11 months ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/disability@beehaw.org

i really need a mobility device/assistive technology for my brain. like thinking sticks. wouldn't that be lovely? we could do so much more.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 24 points 11 months ago

The current climate of "discourse" in the US works against effective teaching. I do know what I'm talking about here; teaching emotionally charged subjects was my strength but it's nearly impossible to online these days.

I have no idea how you get out of this dynamic when it's become so deeply embedded in how things are done, just that for every person who manages to learn something amidst the shouting, another is driven further away from what you wish to teach. But this is where we are and what we have to work with.

This can be true along with the unfairness of putting the burden on the disadvantaged side. I don't know the answer. Perhaps there isn't one.

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submitted 11 months ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/disability@beehaw.org

Neuro rehab has gone in for pacing advice before other help. I've been chronically ill since early childhood and understand pacing. The OT heard the variety of things I do to get through the exhausting quantity of hours in a day and went straight to Look at how MUCH you're doing without understanding that 1) the variety is trying to use different parts of my thinking (roughly words v not words) and 2) even if I do less, there are still 16 hours to get through every single bloody day.

Trying to use this as a time to re-evaluate what I am doing to fill the hours but there's only so much lay in bed quietly with my eyes closed I can do without further damaging my mental health.

I don't know if there is an answer to this. I used to be really good at reframing and thinking outside the box and I've been doing this for decades, but may as well throw this out here to see if anyone's come up with any other ways to get through the days.

My spoons are crap because of the effort of going to the neuro rehab appt so will read replies but responding to them might not work so well. You know how that goes....

[-] emma@beehaw.org 18 points 11 months ago

I don't come anywhere near close to meeting the requirements for intentional communities. Chronic illness is a real bastard. I don't need much and the quality of my life could so easily be improved by just a little help from others, but everyone - even intentional communities - is caught up in focusing on how much others can help them. What I can give is less tangible, and therefore dismissed.

I don't want to abandon society but I do recognise we'd all be far better off if we lived in ways which were less isolating. Every person/family for themselves harms us all.

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cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269511

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269459

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269398

Writer George Penney (who also writes wonderful posts about house-sitting adventures with feline overlords in various countries and is an entertaining follow) just posted this on Mastodon:

"If you like the idea of a romcom centered around a geek bar featuring dnd, goths, furries, munches and drag queens, with a message that's even more relevant now than when I wrote it. My alter-ego Evie Snow has a book--"This Is Not A F*cking Romance"--out today for FREE in all stores (Yay!)"

https://books2read.com/u/mZKeQe

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/books@lemmy.ml

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269459

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269398

Writer George Penney (who also writes wonderful posts about house-sitting adventures with feline overlords in various countries and is an entertaining follow) just posted this on Mastodon:

"If you like the idea of a romcom centered around a geek bar featuring dnd, goths, furries, munches and drag queens, with a message that's even more relevant now than when I wrote it. My alter-ego Evie Snow has a book--"This Is Not A F*cking Romance"--out today for FREE in all stores (Yay!)"

https://books2read.com/u/mZKeQe

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269398

Writer George Penney (who also writes wonderful posts about house-sitting adventures with feline overlords in various countries and is an entertaining follow) just posted this on Mastodon:

"If you like the idea of a romcom centered around a geek bar featuring dnd, goths, furries, munches and drag queens, with a message that's even more relevant now than when I wrote it. My alter-ego Evie Snow has a book--"This Is Not A F*cking Romance"--out today for FREE in all stores (Yay!)"

https://books2read.com/u/mZKeQe

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/literature@beehaw.org

Writer George Penney (who also writes wonderful posts about house-sitting adventures with feline overlords in various countries and is an entertaining follow) just posted this on Mastodon:

"If you like the idea of a romcom centered around a geek bar featuring dnd, goths, furries, munches and drag queens, with a message that's even more relevant now than when I wrote it. My alter-ego Evie Snow has a book--"This Is Not A F*cking Romance"--out today for FREE in all stores (Yay!)"

https://books2read.com/u/mZKeQe

[-] emma@beehaw.org 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My central and autonomic nervous systems. Mine are shite and have been since I was wee. Even a clean reinstall of the original operating system would likely help a ton, but if the open source community could go through the files and find the all the bugs, who knows what I could make of my life. At the very least I'd be able to work again.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 21 points 1 year ago

Is anyone checking the AI "summariser" bot for accuracy? I'd rather not get misleading ideas in my head from a poor summary.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by emma@beehaw.org to c/technology@beehaw.org

This might not be the best place to ask this as you'll all be asking far more of your phones than I ever will, but I need to buy a mobile phone so friends can get a hold of me when we meet up in a different city next month. The battery on the mobile I bought when I moved two years ago won't take a charge now.

I'm mostly housebound because of chronic illness and my life is very lonely, so even when I am out it's not like anyone is trying to reach me. Home internet with a laptop and tablet serves 99.999% of my needs.

So I suppose the big criteria is that the bloody thing won't die when I don't manage to keep it charged.

EDIT: I bought a replacement battery for £17. It should be here end of the week. What I need is a grandkid who can just tell me those sorts of things. Anyone want to adopt me? 🙃

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

Just want to recommend this drama series from Thailand about gay men, relationships, found family, loss, vulnerability, letting go and moving on. They have their ups and downs and arguments but support each other through it all. It is beautiful in every way.

The name comes from the late night chicken-rice diner owned by Jim, who's struggling financially but does his best to take care of everyone, including raising his confused and rebelling teenage nephew on his own. Into his life comes cheeky Wen, who's complicated his own situation but is otherwise full of emotional intelligence.

One of the characters is deaf and doesn't speak. He and the nephew have their own distinct but integrated story line. Two young men helping each other grow into maturity.

All of the characters are genuinely good guys. Masculinity as complex, often vulnerable, and thoroughly non-toxic.

It's on GMMTV's youtube (or your favourite non-tracking alternative front-end) channel. Playlist on the link.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 40 points 1 year ago

Ad blockers are my best disability accommodation. The things they do with ads to capture attention f with my brain. I'm really going to struggle if this happens. And I'm dependent on the internet for so many things, from groceries to prescriptions to people.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 32 points 1 year ago

Something with environmentalist and sustainability goals and principles rather than forms of destruction. I don't want to kill things or chop down trees or blow stuff up. The world is difficult and I am tired.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 18 points 1 year ago

I have photosensitivity. I need to get animated emojis off my screen as quickly as possible since they bring me closer to my seizure threshold.
Think of it like a cup. Skimming quickly past a few animated emojis won't fill the cup on their own, but if it's already full from other things, even that little bit is a risk for it spilling over into a seizure. If I were to try to read a lengthy post with animated emojis, forget it.
Laugh at me if it makes you feel superior. You probably are.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 38 points 1 year ago

The replies to the post by the sh.itjust.works admin are fascinating. Admin's post is calming, reasonable, minimises outrage and indicates ways forward which will improve the platform. Win win win, with some temporary inconvenience. So of course others are forgetting all of that and inventing things to get upset about. How do we (collectively) unlearn this habit? I learned by observing it in action and reading others' writing about it. Maybe someone will learn something from reading this. Tiny drop in the vast ocean but I don't know how to scale it. We need to figure it out though.

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