inTheShadowOf

joined 1 month ago
[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 2 points 17 minutes ago

My friend will try scared

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 6 points 26 minutes ago* (last edited 24 minutes ago) (2 children)

what the fuck is a system ... just be normal

Oh come on, this is just ableism now

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 22 points 3 hours ago

In one month he swears he'll do it!

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago

My friend said the snacks were really good if that helps at all.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 11 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

At what age is eating yourself into a tummy ache a bit embarrassing?

Asking for a friend.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 5 points 12 hours ago

I played HL2 for the first time when it was free recently. It was fun, definitely dated, but not in a bad way. Valve really cooked with the gravity gun.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 8 points 12 hours ago

At least I have gaming.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

::: spoiler spoiler There are lot of reasons the world gives us to hate being trans, I think even the most principled trans positive person is bound to feel it sometimes. I'm sorry it's been so difficult heart-sickle

Being stealth for whatever the reason is fine, but maybe it doesn't all have to be hate and shame. Easier said than done, of course, but I think any trans person you've shown kindness to would want you to feel some of that kindness and understanding as well.

To whatever the future brings!

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I guess I'm also worried that dating another trans person would make my dysphoria even worse, maybe it's irrational idk😵‍💫

Can I ask why you think that would be the case? A transmasc person's transition is quite different from yours.

In my experience, t4t relationships haven't just been eliminating the initial transphobia worry, but they also provide an understanding that I don't think cis people will really have (through no fault of their own)

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (6 children)

With cis people definitely, but t4t can make that less miserable

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Looks like it was removed thankfully, but yikes. Feels like that account should be banned too.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Going from "the new BCNR song is boring" to "okay, yeah, it's pretty good" when I notice it's gay.

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