[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago

dont jork your peanits

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 26 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

40 days sober

electrolysis clinic booked to max. ill unionize against myself when I move offices, but for now the boss wants 12 hour days

expanding to a full time office soon, at which point ill have capacity to do multiple days a month pro bono work for a local drop-in centre for LGBTQ folks

training an apprentice, when they're ready we will convert the business to a workers co-op and bring on another apprentice. im raising an army of based communist electrologists.

lets fucking go

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 40 points 1 month ago

Sorry, I've gotten so used to shoplifting that I'm not going back to paying

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 37 points 2 months ago

I thought it'd be funny to make my wife gay

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submitted 3 months ago by jwsmrz@hexbear.net to c/comics@hexbear.net

bottom text amber whataboutism

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 28 points 3 months ago

I'm constantly fascinated by people who wear clothing to bed

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 22 points 3 months ago

my friend is a baker, and is trying to think of funny items to make.

So my question for the community is would you buy high quality biscuit treats for your puppygirl or whatever

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 48 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

sounds great, too many organizing efforts are ruined by people smashing and then causing drama with one another tbh especially when folks are young

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 20 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

im gay

I just want to make a comment so we can make this one bigger than the last one

also a funny thing is I had a consult for an orchi last week and on the list of "alternative low impact treatments" its like

  • tucking (okay sure)
  • anti-androgens (okay sure)
  • vaginoplasty (uhhhhh)

still not 100% sure if I want to chop the boys off, but wanted to get the referral process started just in case. my main anxieties are losing function of my doodad, and also signing up for a lifetime of hormonal medication

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 23 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

yeah so nothing is universal with trans people, so it's always good to have a chat / bring up what you're wondering before you bone

usually if I'm with someone new who is trans I like to ask what they like their bits called (maybe what some people might call a clit is actually a cock now for example) and what makes them feel best and most comfortable, anything that makes them feel uncomfortable etc. I think it's also worth asking how they feel about their chest since lots of trans masc folks dislike it being touched or even having it bare.

might feel like an uncomfortable or awkward discussion, but personally one of the reasons I don't like to fuck new cis people is because it always ends up with me having to lead a sex ed seminar, so it would probably be refreshing to have someone take the lead on respectful communication.

make no assumptions, tread politely, be a nice boy

hope you get strapped or whatever, godspeed soldier

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 28 points 3 months ago

currently wondering how many people there are in the world that sound just like peter griffin because of this

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 22 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

cw harassment lol

spoilerYesterday some freak followed me for like 10 minutes, practically to my doorstep, while repeatedly yelling slurs and throwing random trash at me, and I was too tired to even do much of anything besides walk slightly faster.

Idk, I was wearing baggy pants and a baggy thick as hell sweater, so im not really sure what tipped him off, but what the fuck. Not that anyone deserves that treatment but if I was dressed campy I could sort of understand it. I guess I just have an aura of slur.

anyway this sort of shit happens a lot to me and I go out of my way to dress down / make people more comfortable with me, so I'm not really sure what the fuck is such a giveaway when I just want to run errands and chill. I get why people detransition for reasons like this, I miss being invisible and ignored. I'm happy with myself and all my changes, but other people make it really hard.

[-] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago

thats a pretty nice tunnel

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by jwsmrz@hexbear.net to c/transenby_liberation@hexbear.net

Seriously, this shit doesnt happen to any of my other trans fem friends who generally present a lot more fem than me.

In the last 3 months I've had 3 instances of me minding my own business (riding transit / smoking outside a concert venue) and some fucker will just come up and start shit.

The other night someone came up to me and started yelling like a Fox News reporter like "ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN, ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN, DONT YOU PEOPLE GO IN SCHOOLS AND [REDACTED HORRIBLE THINGS TO KIDS]

I don't fucking get it, because I generally present pretty "butch" and at a base level don't really look like someone you'd want to fight. I'm not saying I'm a big tough badass, but out of all my trans friends I definitely look like the most likely to whoop your ass. And also when I've been swung on, I've won all the fights, but not in a cool way where I feel good...I just wish I was never in that situation to begin with stalin-bummed

Another thing that fucks me up is it's great that I can defend myself - but if it wasn't me, and it was someone smaller or more passive, how far would it have gone? Would one of my sisters have been curbstomped? I fucking hate that so much.

A few theories posited by my friends

  1. Beating up someone in a dress / dressed fem isnt really badass no matter what so it happens less (but obviously still happens). So maybe presenting more butch makes you more "fightable"?

  2. I simply go out more; I take transit 3-4x a day, I travel up and down my city every day, on weekends I'll generally have a big night out at least once

  3. I'm androgynous in a weird way where people don't really understand what I'm going for (most of my trans friends are very binary presenting) and it's threatening / confusing / provokes harassment

I honestly don't fucking get it. I'm sure there isn't a magic answer. Just venting I guess.

tl;dr im hot and strong, people dont like it

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