[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

Once again displaying your ignorance.

Siscon is about having an infatuation with an idyllic image of your sister and having abnormal affection for them as a result.

It's about idolatry more than anything else.

Seriously. The sex fetish is weird. Please stop

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Was I supposed to lean into it or something? Kinda sick of people ruining my fandom with their fetish bullshit. Not gonna let you just spout off these trash ideas without any sort of push back. Though I'm sure you'd prefer it

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Of course they find it weird. They make fun of it constantly. But the classification/term originated there for a variety of reasons. Not everyone who likes Japanese shit is a degenerate pervert. Go touch grass

Seriously, the Western need to twist everything into something sexual is fucking weird and gross. Get help

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago

Doesn't mean incest, though I understand how someone unfamiliar with the term and Japanese culture in general would think that. Western obsession with sex is weird

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

D, final answer

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago

Right? If I want historical accuracy I'll watch a documentary

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 64 points 5 days ago

when a black woman becomes the next sekiro

..... Sounds cool?

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago

I think their point was: even if you're uncomfortable, what are you going to do about it? Interfering in any way - even just suggesting that this relationship is a problem - is controlling.

As another reply said, if you want to say something like "I'm not implying anything about this guy, but it does remind me to make certain you know the signs of predatory relationships", that's probably a good thing.

Just know that your son may react defensively at the perceived threat to his first meaningful friendship outside his home town (even if you're not actually a threat), and you have to let that be okay.

For the record, I'm 40 and have had friendships that started in my early 20s with people much older than me, and am currently friends with some kids in their 20s. Especially for introverts and people with niche hobbies, there's a lot more care for shared interests than social norms like age gap.

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I don't agree with the determination either, and I definitely wouldn't run my own community that way

But I'm also a community admin elsewhere and have been doing that kind of stuff for like 25 years or something.

So I don't really begrudge any admin for deciding what things are off-limits for their community. It's up to me whether I participate there or not

[-] neatchee@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

It's not your space to make that decision for. You are not the one who has potential problems if it draws negative attention. You aren't the one responsible if server admins choose to block that community due to the law-breaking information you're making available.

The appropriate place to share information that clearly instructed people on how to break the law is in private, or in a space you have created and control yourself.

It's uncool to demand others allow you to use spaces they are in charge of like this. Have a little respect for the people who actually created these spaces.

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