pfr

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[–] pfr 20 points 9 months ago (6 children)

I read the other day that a good response to these fuck heads is ridicule. They're not only prepared for a fight, it's what they want. What they can't stand however is being ridiculed and laughed at. The most demoralising thing you can do is to laugh in their face because of how fucking ridiculous they are.

Sure, tell them to Fuck right Off.. but do it with a chuckle and a grin. They won't know how to handle it.

[–] pfr 24 points 9 months ago

What a cesspool. Fuck that place. I know that it'll probably never die, but I hope one day more common folks begin to realise how fucked it is and leave.

[–] pfr 1 points 9 months ago

we need to end the surveillance economy all together. Make social media unprofitable.

THIS!

[–] pfr 5 points 9 months ago

It's the UK trying to out-stupid America?

[–] pfr 2 points 9 months ago
[–] pfr 2 points 9 months ago
[–] pfr 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Let me firstly say that I 100% agree with all of the above. And secondly, I don't work in tech.

But I think most of the frustration from the grey beards is possibly because they're burnt out. They've probably been answering the same questions their entire life. And there comes a point when the actual answer becomes, RTFM.

I don't agree it's an appropriate response. The mere fact that the acronym has profanity in it suggests it's an aggressive response.

I've been on forums before where, instead of saying "RTFM", someone had just linked me to the appropriate man page... Essentially the same message, but far more helpful and a much less insulting.

In my opinion it's not wrong to tell someone to read the manual, especially if the answer is in it, but it's how you say it that matters.

[–] pfr 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I actually don't think it'd be that uncomfortable. Not at that subtle angle..

It'd probably be better for blood flow and prevent getting a dead leg.

[–] pfr 6 points 9 months ago

Jitsi is a great open source alternative to Google Meet and Zoom etc

[–] pfr 3 points 9 months ago

If it works, don't try to fix it

[–] pfr 2 points 9 months ago

Ahh thanks for that clarification. That makes more sense. I suppose I'm combined type too. Was likely more evident when I was younger. These days my "hyperactivity" presents as hyperfocus whereas I would climb the walls as a kid.

 

So I've tried both, and they both work, but with different effects. The dex is the only thing that helps with executive function, that kick start to actually initiate tasks. But Ritalin is more effective in muting the mental noise which helps me stay focused longer. It also helps me regulate my emotions much better. I have young kids and life gets hectic, so ritalin helps be keep my cool in this moments. But I'm reluctant to give up the Dex (what I'm currently prescribed) because I need it most work days to get things moving.

I wonder if anyone has the same experience and whether they've managed to work with their prescriber to use both on lower doses?

 

Finally got confirmation of what I've always known. Feeling conflicted. Relieved and happy I now have validation. But feeling angry and grieving the life I could have had if I was diagnosed sooner. Still plenty of time to find my groove I suppose.

 

I'm living life in the virtual terminal, no graphical session, although the framebuffer does render graphics.

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First home server advice (self.selfhosted)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by pfr to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
 

Hey everyone, I'm planning on setting up my first home server this year. Going to use an old Dell Optiplex with a couple 4tb SSD's.

I only need two services running. Jellyfin and immich. I've tested this out in a debian netinstall VM and it works.

Just looking for helpful hints or advice etc. I'm a long time Linux and BSD user and I'm tempted to try it out using Alpine Linux or even NetBSD (my daily driver os) but I thought I'd be sensible and go with Debian for.... Stability?

Anyway, immich is run in a container whereas jellyfin has a binary install. Apparently you can run jellyfin in a container also, not sure I really need to tho?

Thank you for any hints or advice.

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GENODE SculptOS (self.unixporn)
 

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A short history of BSD (www.abortretry.fail)
submitted 2 years ago by pfr to c/bsd
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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by pfr to c/plan9
 

So I'm kind of using 9front for the first time and I really like it. It's really quite a simple operating system. There has certainly been a learning curve coming from Linux and BSD, but I'm getting there. Just need to set up Mail, Faces and an IRC client next.

So far I've just edited the theme, set up a couple functions, customised my riostart, edited the winwatch source code to reduce the padding etc. Everything I've done is pretty much in the acme window.

I've connected to the 9p VPS through rcpu which I find much better than using draw term. Although I suppose I'll need to use draw term to complete challenge two, set up faces for neinbook.

I'm hoping to learn how to edit the main right click menu so I can add launch commands for acme and netsurf. I also would like to edit the new window command to enable -scroll in all new windows. Any tips are welcome and appreciated.

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submitted 2 years ago by pfr to c/plan9
 

I'm just curious if it would be possible to port rbw to 9front?

 

Title.

Basically, I've had an account on lemmy.ml for a while and now I've moved to lemmy.sdf.org and I can't seem to see my previous posts from my lemmy.ml account.

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Hello SDF! (lemmy.sdf.org)
submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by pfr to c/sdfpubnix
 

G'day ladies, gentlemen, and all gender non-conforming or non-binary individuals of the Fediverse.

Consider this an #introduction of sorts. I am an ex-Redditor but I'm not new to Lemmy, SDF or the Fediverse. I watched on Mastodon as hordes of people migrated from the imploding bird site and it was wonderful to see. Now watching Reddit push their users towards Lemmy, I'm excited for the future of the internet. A much needed web revolution is upon us.

If you haven't yet, check out mastodon.sdf.org, matrix.sdf.org and pixelfed.sdf.org for more SDF federated goodness. Tell Reddit, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube and all other social media giants to get stuffed. Cheers

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