soyaboya

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[–] soyaboya@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 3 weeks ago

Sorry for the late response, I was taking a hike. Thanks for your input! I agree the best way to change minds is by letting them think that they were always correct, even if they change behavior. I like to say that "everyone's vegan, according to themselves." Vegan, as in a* good person*. The process of self-criticism (I prefer the words like improvement or recovery tbh) is very dialectical. You have cognitive dissonance, holding both yourself and a new idea. That's contradiction. But your ego can't lose. People that are truly convinced they're not a good person sadly don't stay alive for long. So you need to preserve your sense of self healthily, but carve it and mold it slowly and carefully, until reformed to a desired state. It's like tissue damage and recovery to build muscles. If you tear up everything, no more lifting anything, at all. So you go at it slowly.

So I wouldn't use the phrase "purity testing" what's true is true. What's wrong is wrong. I hope our comrades see the truth and are able to handle it and welcome it in themselves. And you bring up a great point. For a group, or a party to be united in belief so much, as if it's one person...that's exactly the goal, through never ending criticism and corrections. Hope that makes sense.

 

As we know, most people aren't vegan and most "communists" aren't either. At times I've even felt like my vegan but apolitical/liberal/progressive friends have better insight in the intersectionality and have more compassion than all of the carnist "comrades" I work closely with every day. Can I even consider them comrades if we're so misaligned on a basic idea?

Finding people that care is hard. Befriending and keeping them around is hard. Getting people you know to care is hard. I just feel disappointed and sad. This only sounds arrogant to people that dismiss truth, so I'll say it: This is what it feels like to be correct, and it's lonely.

Not seeking advice but I'd love to hear how your life is and what you think and feel!