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It bugs me when people say "the thing is is that" (if you listen for it, you'll start hearing it... or maybe that's something that people only do in my area.) ("What the thing is is that..." is fine. But "the thing is is that..." bugs me.)

Also, "just because doesn't mean ." That sentence structure invites one to take "just because " as a noun phrase which my brain really doesn't want to do. Just doesn't seem right. But that sentence structure is very common.

And I'm not saying there's anything objectively wrong with either of these. Language is weird and complex and beautiful. It's just fascinating that some commonly-used linguistic constructions just hit some people wrong sometimes.

Edit: I thought of another one. "As best as I can." "The best I can" is fine, "as well as I can" is good, and "as best I can" is even fine. But "as best as" hurts.

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[-] BugleFingers@lemmy.world 9 points 7 months ago

"Next weekend" "Next Friday" etc. Wherein they use "Next" to mean "the one after" rather than "the soonest interval in which it will reoccur"

If it is Wednesday and you say "Next Friday" I will immediately think of two days from now, not 9 days. I also especially dislike it because if feels like on a whim that it'll change. for some "next weekend" will be in 5 days if it's Monday, or 10 days if it's Wednesday! What the heck people??

[-] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 14 points 7 months ago

On a Wednesday I would use "This Friday" or just "Friday" to describe 2 days away. Using "next" in the context you're describing seems weird to me.

[-] __Lost__@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 7 months ago

If it's Wednesday, "Friday" or "this Friday" would describe the day in 2 days. "Next Friday" would be 9 days away. I think it's clear and have never had an issue with people not knowing which day is being discussed. Maybe people around here are more consistent about it than other areas?

[-] Piafraus@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

That is always confusing to me. If I am on a bus stop: "This bus" doesn't make sense, it doesn't exist yet. Next bus, is the next occurance of event "Bus".

If it's Wednesday, the "this Friday" doesn't really make sense. There doesn't exist a Friday in Wednesday, that you call this. Next Friday however is quite clear - it's next occurrence of event "Friday" on the timeline, so it's the one in two days.

[-] OhNoMoreLemmy@lemmy.ml 2 points 7 months ago

Ok but if you're at a bus stop, and the bus is just coming round the corner into sight, you can say "this bus" even though it's not parked up yet.

Same thing with this Friday. If it's close enough to be in mind, you can use this.

[-] JustARegularNerd@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

I hate the ambiguity in that too. My usual goto instead is "the coming Friday"

[-] fchum@lemm.ee 2 points 7 months ago

Or Friday next week for... You know... The next week's Friday

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