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Idk gender bad maybe
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I've felt dysphoria for less time then you
I'm in a similar situation with my parents and I don't have any advice, just this
I'm sorry but if you can't give advice then give me money
Well if you really want advice, here's some I can't follow myself, at least yet. (I try not to give advice I can't follow normally but
) Sorry if it sounds harsh, a lot of that harshness is directed inwards.
Live your best life, wearing all the skirts you desire. It's okay to make your life about you, not making other people happy. I mean, how sad is that? Making your only life about people who don't want you to be yourself? We get one single, short life on this earth. If wearing skirts makes you happy you should do it, and if wearing boy clothes makes you sad you shouldn't. If your parents are incompatible with you being happy, pick yourself.
*this advice is assuming no immediate danger
**also I hope if you actually need money, you post on mutual aid
Thank you for saying this, I hope that in time you can make it a guiding principle for yourself as well.