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Chat, is it creepy to have a totally unjustified crush
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there are plenty of thoughts you can have about women that are problematic.
ok but it's not inherently problematic lmao
yeah, but a dude worrying about potentially being a creep and than some other guy coming along and being like "there is no way to think about a women and be a creep" just rubs me the wrong way.
I'm sorry. I interpreted the OP as being pretty much completely benign, the typical overthinking you do when falling in love as a lonely person. If he does have thoughts that would push him to cross boundaries and make her uncomfortable or unsafe then that is a problem, I just didn't see anything that pointed in that direction.
that's not at all how i read the comment though
ok
ok