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Chat, is it creepy to have a totally unjustified crush
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Thinking about women is not problematic, friend.
I have dealt with leftism long enough to know that it's never as simple /s
But seriously yeah I know it's fine it's just some kind of anxiety, I don't know what I'm afraid of, to my knowledge I've never been creepy to anyone, yet somehow I'm tormented by the idea of being one
Why is everyone so fucking neurotic about this?
Like why are half the posters in this thread going WHOAAA THAT'S JUST A STEP AWAY FROM BECOMING A PSYCHO STALKER ABUSER
It's understandable up to a certain point because most men are gross, we suck and there's constant evidence for that worldview. But I agree that it's excessive to bring that attitude to a thread where someone who is struggling with a social situation is asking for support and has given us next to no reason to think anything untowards has happened.
Because people here don’t have positive leftist male role models besides dudes who died decades ago. So you go to the extremes out of ignorance/lack of viewpoints and/or a desire to appear as if you are The One Good Male
there are plenty of thoughts you can have about women that are problematic.
ok but it's not inherently problematic lmao
yeah, but a dude worrying about potentially being a creep and than some other guy coming along and being like "there is no way to think about a women and be a creep" just rubs me the wrong way.
I'm sorry. I interpreted the OP as being pretty much completely benign, the typical overthinking you do when falling in love as a lonely person. If he does have thoughts that would push him to cross boundaries and make her uncomfortable or unsafe then that is a problem, I just didn't see anything that pointed in that direction.
that's not at all how i read the comment though
ok
ok
God it's like people on this site forget we're all human beings that do normal human things.