How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA) (lemmy.world)

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One of my new friends is/was a cop. Just found out about it. I genuinely believe ACAB, and this news has me conflicted because my new friend seems really cool and super nice. I don't know him super well yet, though. He's a big part of this new friend group and I don't know how to process this and how to deal with the fact he's a cop.

I don't want to look past the fact he's a cop, but I want to stay his friend and stay in this friend group.

Any advice for dealing with this shit?

I can't talk to my therapist about it until Thursday.

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[-] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 13 points 16 hours ago

Yeah. Don't be a prejudiced asshole and see your friend for who they are. Being a cop is something they do, not something they are. Don't let hate infect you just because it's on your own side of the line.

[-] stinky@redlemmy.com -4 points 15 hours ago

Being a Nazi is something people do, not something they are.

[-] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

~~Ye, following a particular hateful political movement so strictly you approve of murder is absolutely the same as having a particular job.~~

~~Not sure if this is needed, but yes, sarcasm.~~

editing your post then pretending I'm making a dumb comment, that's not something you see every day. Either way, I'm glad to see you change your mind!

[-] stinky@redlemmy.com 1 points 14 hours ago

What was the point of the sarcasm? Did it help your argument or hurt it? I'm asking why it was included because it doesn't seem to add anything which wasn't already obvious, exactly like the content of the message

[-] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 1 points 13 hours ago

Bruh. Bots running crazy on this site.

[-] stinky@redlemmy.com 2 points 13 hours ago

... Why would you accuse a bot of being a bot? .. Did you think it would get offended? Lol bruh

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