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submitted 1 year ago by WindyRebel@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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We have next door neighbors that are Muslim and are so very kind. They bring us plates of food when they cook and they even scared away some kids trying to steal our car at 2 in the morning.

I wanted to return the favor with a nice card from us and a gift. I don’t know how strict they are with Halal, and I read that Halal-friendly might not be good enough so I’m weary of a gift card to a restaurant even if it says Halal.

So what kind of gift(s) would be appropriate for a thank you? I appreciate any help you all can provide!

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[-] passably9@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

You would be showered with upvotes if this was a Christian family in question. Shows Muslims are given an unfair special treatment

[-] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Well, I downvoted because how is this helpful or a thoughtful gift for anyone, unless this is something they specifically have an identity around or are heavily invested in?

Even an LGBTQ+ person I wouldn’t buy a rainbow flag or rainbow gear for unless they specifically wanted one and didn’t have one. I’d try and get them something useful like food, something to entertain themselves, etc.

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