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Why do men keep on having dates with me and then eventually leave? (lemmy.zip)
submitted 7 months ago by choihanna@lemmy.zip to c/askmen@lemmy.world
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So before anything I'm a trans woman (20), I do not claim to be a real woman or try to put women down or mock them. So please I'd like to ask you to abstein from comments about it because I already know what I am.

I've been trying dating apps because they feel safer than just dating people from your daily life when I was a teen (friends and classmates).

I do have a note on my profile that notifies these men about what I am before they can chat with me, some unmatch, others will say bad stuff before leaving, but another big amount stay. Everything goes fine we chat for a long time, we have a few dates, but in the end they all seem to lose interest at some point.

It just makes me so tired of meeting a lot of different men every month. I don't understand what they want.

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[–] erin@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago (2 children)

That's not "the truth," that's blatant transphobia. That is a statement that trans women aren't "real" women.

[–] Iceblade02@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

That's not how I read the comment, and I very much doubt that's how it was intended or how most people interpreted it.