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So, how do you approach astrology? I have a lot of people in my life who believe in it, in more than a pop-faith way. It seems a lot of queer people are really into it. And i find it fascinating in the way that belief systems are systems and systems are really cool. But, how do i interact with this? Especially when people apply this totalizing idealist belief structure to me (e.g. my day was bad and they say its because mercury is in retrograde). Like, i dont want to offend people, but also like i dont like people applying this shit to me, and it rubs me the wrong way when e.g. scheduling doesnt work out for our group game night and its blamed on planets. Like, no, its because of the scheduling of everyones jobs, which in turn are due to the arbitrary (or nonarbitrary) decisions of management, etc. etc.
So does anyone have tactics for navigating social interactions with people who are deep into this? I dont want to go off on them, i dont want to deny them their faith, but i dont want their belief structures applied to me, and i dont feel terribly welcome when they are applied to the group as a whole because then its like idk its just difficult and alienating when im the only one who doesnt hold a faith structure within a group.
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this song often comes to mind, but I usually just play along. ig it could be kind of alienating to some people, but idgaf so its fine. plus they should be impressed at my delivery. i may not be able to freestyle well, but i can spit decently.
if they seem open to actually talking spirituality i'll bring up santa muerte, but it can be equally uncomfortable.
If youre trying to make a comment about astrology or how i interface with it through social structures it was not communicated; I dont undersrand what your comment means.
Edit: oh i just saw your edit, its a song. Ill give it a listen but tbh im still a little confused... Could you elaborate?
I mean basically, just be yourself. if there's spiritual stuff that you're interested get into it and share that or just play along with astrology if you aren't interested in pushing against hegemonic monotheism. I like to challenge people and push a polytheistic worldview, but I'm also comfortable with not being accepted so it isn't for everyone.
I mean, i avoid "being myself" quite a bit, cause it makes other people uncomfortable and they shouldnt be made uncomfortable... I express interest in astrology sometimes but mostly just stay quiet about it. I guess thats all i can do? Im not about to go off about my worldview, like you say thats not conducive to an aligned social interaction, and tbh im just now finally making some true friends and i dont want to alienate them.
I've had to rebuild my social circles a bunch of times in my life (my family moved around a lot and I've kept up the tradition as an adult) so I'd rather just put it all out there so I can find people I click with sooner. To each their own tho.
I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy: