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[–] nimrod06@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Misandrist society as always

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hi nimrod and welcome to WomensStuff! We're a trans inclusive women only forum and ask cis men don't comment. Please check out the rules ❤️

[–] Photonic@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

While I don’t agree with nimrod, I do think the entire premise that cis men aren’t allowed to comment is misandrist. 

  1. Women only... trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn't allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.

To illustrate this, let’s change the groups a bit:

  1. Men only... trans men are men, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn't allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a men’s community is a good fit for them.

Or…

1: cis only. Cis women are cis, cis men are cis. Cisphobic talk is not allowed. Anyone under the cis umbrella is… etc 

Or…

1: Non-black people only. Chinese and Hispanics are non-black. Negative talk about Hispanics is not allowed. Anyone under the lightly colored umbrella….

Etc. 

It will always be discriminatory and, depending on what group you’re excluding either sexist, racist, misogynist, misandrist, transphobic, etc. to exclude certain groups based on what they were born as. Excluding men isn’t any better than excluding trans people, especially if you claim to be inclusive.

So don’t just claim to be inclusive, be inclusive, and don’t ban other human beings from posting. I don’t care whether you’re a man, woman, trans person, or about the colour of your skin. You’re a human being.

So why can’t I post in a community simply because I was born a certain way?

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for your thoughts! We are women only because we need a safe space. Due to you repeatedly breaking the rules we've banned you, but please enjoy your weekend ❤️

[–] Photonic@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I’m sorry but that is just not okay.

Imagine

we are white only because we need a safe space

Why can I be discriminated against because of what other men have done?

Why is it okay to do this to a man? You wouldn’t do this to any other group. What makes you think any of this is alright?

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Let me flip that around.

Why do men (and let's be honest here, almost always specifically white men) simply have to comment where:

  1. They have no meaningful lived experience outside of "I think i saw a woman in porn once".
  2. The people who are talking don't want to be constantly correcting and educating the ignorant.
  3. The group in question is a single fucking group out of literally THOUSANDS OF GROUPS where they are unwelcome?

Doesn't that just make you cringe a little, being so fucking whiny and so fucking self-centred that you can't stand a single fucking space that doesn't want you?

Note: these questions are for you to ponder, not reply, because:

  1. Answering it is against the rules. Don't be the kind of whiny shit that breaks the rules because your ego got bruised.
  2. I won't see the answer because nothing is more of a turn-off for conversational purposes than a whiny manosphere twit. You're getting blocked the moment I hit "Reply".
[–] Photonic@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Let me rephrase that:

Note: I simply replaced your misandrist remarks with racist remarks, these are not my opinion.

Why do blacks (and let's be honest here, almost always specifically blacks) simply have to comment where:

  1. They have no meaningful lived experience outside of "I think i saw a white person in porn once".
  2. The people who are talking don't want to be constantly correcting and educating the ignorant black people.
  3. The group in question is a single fucking group out of literally THOUSANDS OF GROUPS where they are unwelcome?

Doesn't that just make you cringe a little, being so fucking whiny and so fucking self-centred that you can't stand a single fucking space that doesn't want you because you are a black person?

Note: these questions are for you to ponder, not reply, because:

  1. Answering it is against the rules. Don't be the kind of whiny black shit that breaks the rules because your ego got bruised.
  2. I won't see the answer because nothing is more of a turn-off for conversational purposes than a whiny black twit. You're getting blocked the moment I hit "Reply".

Why would you treat one group of humans differently than others? Why would you be racist, or misogynist or misandrist? Absolutely appalling behaviour.

Even now your comment is absolutely filled with derogatory remarks towards me and other men. I don’t think this is the case you want to be making if you’re trying to convince me this is not all just misandry.

And don’t flatter yourself. I have no interest in a conversation with a racist, misandrist or any other kind of -ist. I’m simply posting this to show others how horrible you treat other human beings.