this post was submitted on 13 May 2026
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A Boring Dystopia
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For me the getting to know you was chatting on the app, I chatted with my now fiance for a few weeks before we actually met up at a restaurant, I felt like I knew him well enough that a restaurant was fine
Glad it worked out for you.
But I can't help but wonder what if when you met in person it wasn't what you were expecting?
Would it have felt like a waste of texting effort?
all dating is a waste of effort. some people get lucky, some people just go on endless dates that go on where, or get into relationships that go no where.
if you find a LTR or get married or whatever, you're not dating anymore.
but without that "waste of effort" they wouldn't have gotten that long term relationship or marriage.