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[–] Sibshops@lemmy.myserv.one 44 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

It's kind of sad that people are so motivated by jealousy. Like why would I care if other people have it better?

[–] toxicbubble@lemmy.world 16 points 6 hours ago

kids are indoctrinated from school to seek out "high skill" jobs and look down on anyone making less

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I think jealousy gets a bad rap. It tells you what you want, and what you personally or society could work toward.

[–] iglou@programming.dev 16 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Jealousy and envy are not the same thing, although the nuance is subtle. What you're talking about is closer to envy. You can be envious of something or someone without the hostility that turns it into jealousy.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I disagree. I believe that you choose for it to be envy or jealousy by your definition.

[–] podian@piefed.social 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

What my friend was conveying is that envy is the want for something--usually that another has--and jealousy is the fear of losing something that one already has.

The interchangeable usage, e.g. by teenagers, based on a vague understanding is just that (for adults it crystalizes into something normative though they're probably unaware of it, ego defense mechanisms lol).

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

And what I'm saying is, that's a choice.