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Welcome to c/disabled, an anticapitalist community for disabled people/people with disability(s).
What is disability justice? Disability justice is a framework of activism which centers disabled people of multiple intersections. Before participating in in this community, please read the Ten Principles of Disability Justice.
Do I count as disabled/a person with disability(s)? "Disability" is an umbrella term which encompasses physical disabilities, emotional/psychiatric disabilities, neurodivergence, intellectual/developmental disabilities, sensory disabilities, invisible disabilities, and more. You do not have to have an official diagnosis to consider yourself disabled.
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- This comm is open to everyone. However, the megathread is only open to people who self-identify as disabled/a person with disability(s). We center the experiences of disabled people here, and if you are abled we ask that you please respect that.
- Follow the principles of disability justice, as outlined in the link above.
- Zero tolerance for ableism. That includes lateral ableism. Ableism will result in a ban.
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- Try to avoid using ableist language. It is always good to be mindful of the way language has been used to oppress and harm people.
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As of December 2025, there is a Matrix Chat Room that adheres to the same rules as the community. If you want to join, it is an invite only server. Just knock to join. Should you have trouble with the link, you can contact the mods for help: https://matrix.to/#/#Hexbear_Disabled_and_ND:matrix.org
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One the one hand, eugenics is a blight on humanity, but on the other, I'm terrified if I have kids they'll inherit my disorder, and I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemies, let alone people I love.
Choosing not to have children is fundamentally different than being made to not have children. But I suppose there is always the fear that you're being influenced by eugenicist ideas.
Yeah. I'm afraid that, because I am concerned about continuing my disorder, that that is a eugenicist point of view. It's not about removing my genes from the pool, though, it's more about not wanting loved ones to suffer. So it's probably not really eugenics.
I've thought about this for a while by now, and all I can tell you is that I believe a lot of us would feel differently about having kids if the circumstances were different. I don't know how much this applies to your disorder, but I tend to believe that better social and medical security would make a lot of people reconsider their stance on children. Mental health is always a tough cookie, and I'm with you on that I don't want to pass on what I have.
Personally I think more of "me"s running around being extremely autistic, blunt, and snarky, would be incredibly funny lol.