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Me: "wow, I never want to have kids."

Parents: "WHAT? It's the lost wonderful experience ever!!!"

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[–] rubber_chicken@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I don't know how common this is, but does anyone else really and thoroughly identify with their kid selves? I remember being put down to nap when I was wide awake and thinking that was bullshit and I still think that was bullshit.

Being unwilling to inflict that on a kid is a big part of why I could never have one.

[–] Rod_Blagojevic@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Kids can be very smart and very perceptive, while also being undisciplined and incapable of self reflection. There's a chance that you really did need that nap.

[–] rubber_chicken@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I didn't nap! I was right in thinking it was a pointless exercise of being wide awake in the dark!

[–] stink@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 day ago

Your protracted struggle against the nap-state

[–] ttayh@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

Absolutelly, and that's part of the reason why I do have a child. Through doing better for them I heal my innner child