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[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 days ago

I dated. A lot. Went on so, so many dates after my divorce and met lots and lots of different people.

When meeting people through apps, I would text quite a bit first AND set up a video-call as a sort of test date. If they still seemed cool, I would go on an in-person date.

It helps weed out the assholes a lot, but it's time and labor intensive.