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[–] NaoPb@eviltoast.org 0 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

I've learned that transgender is an umbrella term which could range from men who like to wear a dress, to drag queens, to people transitioning out of the gender assumed at their birth. Is this correct? And what would be the term for the latter group?

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 12 points 14 hours ago

Crossdressing is not the same as being transgender. There can be overlap, but there's plenty of men who like to crossdress.

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Not as far as I know. I'm a bit of a layman on the topic, trying to learn as well. But, AFAIK, Transgender is someone that has or is in the process of transitioning to a different gender than the one assigned at birth. It doesn't require specific actions (dress change, hormones, surgery, anything), only that the person decides they'll assume their true gender.

So, in the order you presented: crossdresser, drag queen, transgender.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

Crossdressing is not the same as being transgender.

There's plenty of drag queens who are cis men and not trans women.

The term transgender is used to describe a person whose gender identity is different from the one that they were born into or what is noted on their birth certificate. Transgender people do not believe that the sex they were assigned at birth and their gender identifies are the same.

For the most part, cross-dressers are usually heterosexual people who wear clothing traditional of the opposite sex.

The most common example of a crossdresser is a man who wears traditionally feminine clothing such as dresses or skirts. Depending on the person and situation, a cross-dresser may or not identify or associate themselves with the LGBTQ community.

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

That's what I said. Hopefully that came through?

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

There isn't an order to it. It's not some progressive timeline of you start crossdressing, then you start doing drag, then you transistion.

I'm sure some people have followed that path, but crossdressing and drag should not be seen as strictly done by transgender people.

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 3 points 13 hours ago

Not a time order, the order in which the OC presented their 3 examples. What to name:

  1. A man that wears dresses: crossdresser
  2. A drag queen: drag queen
  3. Someone who is transitioning: transgender

I hope what I meant is clear now.