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Have you ever walked away or ended a friendship on the spot? (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 days ago by Rindogang@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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Has anyone here ever abruptly ended a personal relationship with someone or even an entire group of friends, simply because you found their behavior or way of being distasteful?

I'm not talking about a massive dramatic argument, but rather a sudden realization that their attitude or actions were just entirely... "off putting"... or that they revealed something fundamental about who they are

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[–] Poophammer@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

I also walked away from a bunch of random libs I was hanging out with at a yearly anime convention.

What I think happened was two things one girl from the group had a crush on me, boyfriend was genuinely pissed. Did not like me for this. My bad, I didn't try to do this.

The next year, some other girl in this group who was married tried hooking up with me. Which i found kind of gross, her husband had a cuckold fetish. I never thought this shit would happen to me until it did.

And I think me rejecting her pissed her off so the other girl from before colluded and started taking shit I said out of context.

I'm leaving a lot out but I saw the writing on the wall and just left the situation. It felt bad, I want more friends but these people weren't going to be it.

The people there sucked, it was a bunch of rich white kids. A doctor and a finance weeb furry rented a hotel and they'd all party there at the con but clearly it was some stupid vanity project for these two.

I just finished up school and I wanted to make new friends so I tried this group out, but combined with all the drama and the weird power dynamic I didn't want to be there.