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Have you ever walked away or ended a friendship on the spot? (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 days ago by Rindogang@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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Has anyone here ever abruptly ended a personal relationship with someone or even an entire group of friends, simply because you found their behavior or way of being distasteful?

I'm not talking about a massive dramatic argument, but rather a sudden realization that their attitude or actions were just entirely... "off putting"... or that they revealed something fundamental about who they are

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[–] Jackilope@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

Oh most definitely. Several times actually.

When I was recovering from substance abuse issues, the only way to remove my access was cutting off the circle of friends that were still using. It was tough but worth it.

Major one that still stings was a discord server I spent every day hanging out in. I got along with a handful of them very well, but got routinely shit on by two members for my "extreme political rhetoric" basically just angry liberals constantly calling me a fascist for being pro animal liberation or whatever they didnt agree with.