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I hate being pregnant (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 month ago by ChexMax@lemmy.world to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
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I'm pregnant again and I guess I'm looking to vent and maybe for some affirmation.

This is my second baby, but it's my fourth time doing the first trimester. We've suffered two losses.

I'm only 7w5d and I'm already so tired of being pregnant. I'm awfully sick all day every day and I'm crazy tired no matter how much sleep I manage to get. I'm doing my best to meet my toddler's needs.

I just hate this and because of my losses I feel so guilty hating every minute of it. There's nothing beautiful about this. I just feel nausea all day long, I throw up every morning, I cry at every stupid thing, and I'm dog tired. Every smell is overwhelming to me and most food disgusts me and I'm too tired to make myself anything to eat, so I'm always hungry.

I wish I could tell everyone I come into contact with as an excuse for my exhaustion and low effort, but I know how much I won't want to talk about it if anything should happen so I'm pretty stuck there.

I just hate it and I wish more often the media would be honest about how doggone awful it is. Nothing is working to relieve my nausea. The thought of ginger makes me puke from trying that for my morning sickness so much last time.

I guess that's all. Ain't being a woman grand.

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[–] sylphrin@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I also just went through an awful pregnancy with my second child, I completely sympathize. It was a lot worse than my first one, constant nausea and heartburn and fatigue the entire 9 months. In the last 2 months I could barely move and didn't have enough energy to do much of anything I enjoyed (including the more lowkey hobbies like playing games and drawing) - all I could do was watch TV on a recliner until my butt got sore, and then go lie down and nap/read until my hips got sore. Drove me completely up the wall and destroyed my mental health, and my husband wasn't doing great either with 100% of the housework and childcare on his shoulders.

I hated every moment of it, and felt guilty for hating it the entire time.

I'm so sorry for your 2 losses, best of luck with this pregnancy. It's horrible, but hang in there. You can do it, I believe in you.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

Thank you for your response. I can feel my husband is already feeling the strain and we've only just begun here. Thank you for your support