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[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I never felt brave enough to just tell them they said it wrong, like... it felt too confrontational, so I just... nervously laughed when they say it.

When I did know English, and they say it, my response was just like: "I can speak English"... and like that's it...

I feel like it was futile. No westerner is gonna waste time with the tones and it's... just too much hassle.

Same thing with my name, I just... kinda went along with the westernized pronunciation of the Pinyin, I mean, there are other kids also with Pinyin names, no teacher is gonna learn like 5 names from a few different classes per year.

I never knew what to say when I got asked how to pronounce my name.

What do I even say?

The Cantonese ponunciation which is my actual "real" pronunciation I get called by parents.

Or the Mandarin which is what teachers in China's schools used, and what the Pinyin is based on.

I just like freeze... lol...

Anyways, that's history, that part of my life is in the past.

[–] SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world 2 points 3 months ago

I personally might try to say something like that simply to show that I respect who you are, and am willing to learn if it helps the comfort level between us. But, yeah, unfortunately a lot of people can be jerks for a variety of reasons - and it's difficult to discern people's real motivations, so I can appreciate how you feel the need to play it that way. I hope you're doing okay, considering how far down the shithole this country has gone over the past decade plus. I can't imagine what you have to put up with.