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Why are anarchist mutual aid groups always like this? (hexbear.net)
submitted 1 week ago by allthetimesivedied2@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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I literally just got fucking scolded and told I have some "accountability for my behavior" or whatever because I replied to someone who was insulting me, defaming my character, and lying about me with "Fuck you, you lying piece of shit." This isn't the first time this has happened, and it's always in these anarchist/"radical" mutual aid groups. I was flabbergasted. It was like I was on some other planet.

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[โ€“] Awoo@hexbear.net 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Local trans groups are also like this

Some trans groups are looking to fight people over things so hard that they attack other trans people for literally no reason over incredibly minor mistakes of language with no regard whatsoever for tone or intent or international cultural differences in language use. It's led to so many people I know having horrendous experiences when joining some groups and getting attacked. It's really not good.

[โ€“] dragongloss@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

And then a few months or years later the whole thing collapses in dramatic fashion. Members scatter, sometimes traumatized. It sucks. I'm not part of any trans groups anymore. Also I'm not baby trans anymore, so that could be a factor too.