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Nobody ever cares about trans people. And then people wonder why do I never join an org. If my participation matters that much why is it too much to ask to just get rid of the the "Male" designation in my passport? Nobody ever cares to help me with that.
I know you're trying to be helpful, but "Paperwork doesn't mean anything" doesn't help at all when I either have to live as a male or risk getting evicted by my landord if it turns out they're transphobic or getting denied medical treatment based on who I am, because every time I show my passport to someone I either have to live as a male or out myself as transgender.
I'm also trans comrade, I haven't gotten my white man paperwork updated either. I personally don't particularly care for validation from a genocidal empire and would rather give them a "false name" for as long as is feasible. I'm sure I'll have to get it updated eventually tho to avoid getting punished lol I am openly trans and willing to be perceived as a femboy in a lot of contexts so yk our experiences likely differ quite a bit
I am sorry that it's a source of distress for you though and I hope we can make a difference in that area in the near future.