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Yeah I am having a hard time keeping it together. I'm sorry it's not your fault.
Anyway from reading your other comments in this thread it sounds like the thing that's bothering you the most is your paperwork / identification. It's also likely there are LGBTQ legal aid volunteer programs in your country that will help you process the necessary paperwork and possibly assist with financing it.
So if that isn't impossible to change, keep job hunting and save the finances and get it done. You aren't screwing anyone over by prioritising yourself. Not sure where you're at, but surely it isn't a completely insane amount of money
best of luck