Lesbians

I see what you did there 👈😉

That's a funny joke, but if I may use this to go on a wee tangent: I've actually found that in terms of dating, sometimes it feels like I might as well be a lesbian.

On the surface, it might seem like a bi woman's dating pool is gonna be mostly men, because there are far more straight men in the world than sapphic women, but that doesn't account for the quality of the dating pool. For instance, it feels like a significant proportion of straight men say shit like how if not for my short hair, I might be pretty, or that it's a shame that I've ruined myself with piercings.

I'd say my attraction to men is roughly equal in magnitude to my attraction to women (though different qualitatively), but in practice, I seem to mostly date women because actually finding men who are chill with me being queer (and who don't fetishize my sexuality) are much rarer than sapphic women. Not that I'm complaining necessarily, because women are great; I just find it interesting.