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[–] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Got something similar from my mom, who told me, that she will not bother getting used to my new name/pronouns since I'm not visiting that often .__.

[–] femtek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

One up her and never visit until it's at the funeral.

[–] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Would like to do that, but can't since I'm financially dependent on them (my parents; both are equally unaccepting) and will be for the next few years.....

Also I have not given up them completely.

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago

I get that family is complicated. There is nessesity, and there is hope for the future. I wish you the best this holiday.

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

It’s all terribly complicated to navigate, isn’t it?

Makes me want to push her away again, and I’m fighting my base instincts from doing just that.