Off My Chest
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I am looking for mods!
1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
2. Bigotry is not allowed. That includes racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, and religiophobia. (If you want to vent about religion, that's fine; but religion is not inherently evil.)
3. Frustrated, venting, or angry posts are still welcome.
4. Posts and comments that bait, threaten, or incite harassment are not allowed.
5. If anyone offers mental, medical, or professional advice here, please remember to take it with a grain of salt. Seek out real professionals if needed.
6. Please put NSFW behind NSFW tags.
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You can't run from your past forever. Sooner or later it comes around.
Do you need to run from it? In your post you say you regret it, but there is no shame in it. If someone really cares that much about it, perhaps that's just a signal that they don't need to be around you.
Worst case scenario some skeeve comes into your current job claiming he recognizes you. At which point you get offended and deny everything. Unless there's a bunch of pictures and videos floating around of you from your days as a stripper but as far as I know that's not exactly allowed in strip clubs?
Not even offended, just confused.
"Worst case scenario some skeeve comes into your current job claiming he recognizes you. At which point you get offended and deny everything."
"It wasn't me" - Shaggy
"Unless there’s a bunch of pictures and videos floating around of you from your days as a stripper but as far as I know that’s not exactly allowed in strip clubs?"
The club I worked in did you just weren't allowed to record or take photos of anything.
No evidence. Never happened.
"If I can't prove I wasn't at the club will you promise to never tell a soul who you tipped, no one else was sober when it happened"