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So my dad has a spot on his lungs and the doctors are looking into it. (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 day ago by SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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Sucks, but what are you going to do I guess? idk how to feel about it. He laid it out on me this morning in a very matter of fact sort of way, like he doesn't care. And I'm housing insecure too, when he dies idk if I get this house, and if I do, if I can pay the taxes on it and keep the lights and heat on.

Guess I'll just die.

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[–] bigpharmasutra@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

Hoping your dad is ok. If I can impart a little advice - get his will and end of life documents sorted out NOW. Have a serious talk with him if he wants to be hooked up to tubes or just wants to go at home. If you've never dealt with long term sickness or hospitals/hospice/home's, I can assure you, its far more awful to see and live in person than you can possibly imagine.