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Shame you've already blasted music and you are pretty certain he's feeling it. I would have slipped a note under his door asking him to at least get a mat or something to cushion the weights falling
The weights aren't falling. He's bouncing them on each rep and then dropping the weights on the last rep like he's at the fucking gym
Regsrdless of if the weights are falling or bouncing or being dropped: What about the actual suggestion of communicating with the neighbour? I notice you don't reply to those in the comments.
I don't think this is the type of individual that wishes to engage in good faith communication. What kind of person thinks it's reasonable to deadlift over someone's bedroom 630 in the morning?
I've known plenty of people who are sociable but thoughtless.
I know I myself have been a nuisance without realising it, and I am grateful for each person who have told me when I've been rude or hurtful. It's how I have learned to be more considerate in general, as well as cease the immediate behaviour to protect the relationship.
Not everyone will be accommodating, but you will never know unless you try.
Sure but that's still just an assumption. Please at least try to talk to him in person