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[CW: LGBTphobia] What are some of the wildest takes about LGBT you've heard from cishets? (hexbear.net)

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Here are a few I've heard:

"Identifying as demisexual is just a form of slut-shaming"
"'Demisexuality' is just the human norm, most people don't fuck someone they just met"
"Asexual claims of discrimination are an insult to the Black Americans who struggled in the Civil Rights Movement"
"Anyone who identifies as asexual is either an incel in denial or has a medical problem that needs to be cured"

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[–] mar_k@hexbear.net 20 points 2 days ago

I'm a cis bi guy in college, with mostly straight male friends

People have straight up told me they assumed I must be some male-manipulator player who sleeps around a lot. Like they genuinely think people are bi to maximize the amount we get laid?

I told a friend I've only been with one person because I'm only interested in relationships and haven't felt in the headspace for one, and he straight up thought I was kidding

Also, I'm pretty masculine, so a lot of people assume I must be "mostly straight," with maybe a little attraction to femboys. And when I tell them I'm equally into women and gay men, they seem to think that means I probably won't wanna settle down with one person. (imagine if people assumed this for anyone attracted to different ethnicities or hair colors??)