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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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We have decided some brain quirks are disorders (and get accommodations, as is compassionate), whilst others are flaws (and get slurs). But no one picks their hardware. You cannot earn a better prefrontal cortex or deserve a calmer amygdala. Nor does one get to pick the environment they are born in, which will inform their choices later in life. Even the capacity to "learn better" is a roll of the dice, some brains start the race with sprinting shoes, others with lead weights.

So when we call someone stupid, lazy or insane we are not describing a choice, but simply announcing which kinds of unlucky we’ve decided are worthy of scorn.

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[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It seems like every single person these days is neurodivergent so I just treat them normal. I guess thats normalising it.

When we call people stupid/lazy we aren't describing them as a person its usually describing their behaviour or actions in the moment. If an "normal" person doesnt want to get out of bed thats lazy. If an adhd person doesnt want to get out of bed thats still lazy.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

There is genuinely a prevailing theory which basically asserts that the genes that make us neurodivergent are uniquely human, that neurodivergence doesn't exist in other species, etc.

Sci show did a little video on it the other day. Better info here than what I know, undoubtedly. Sci show is well vetted content. Im some guy laying in his bed avoiding the start of his day.

https://youtu.be/0mffmUA7d_4

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 3 points 1 day ago

Interesting I'll check that out. Also I'm some guy laying in bed avoiding the end of my day

[–] jafra@slrpnk.net -2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Sry, but afaik there are some flaws with this hypothesis. Neurodivergence is no defined Illness but a catch-all-term for deviations from the norm. The thing with normality is, nobody really wants to be a normalo, and only very little people fit there. Everyone has his deviations. Neurodivergence refers to mental deviations from the (statistical) norm.

Whether you Like it or not, Person A with schizophrenia and Person B with depression only have in common that they both suffer from a ICD-defined Illness. That aside, theres not much in common between the two.

Calling the ability to be mentally ill, a defining trait of humanity is kind of strange. That would make normal people less human?

[–] bryndos@fedia.io 1 points 7 hours ago

I think 'normal' needs to be interpreted in evolutionary context. What population traits and prevalence helped with thousands of generations? Not what traits helped individuals in the last handful of generations of modern lifestyle.

But anyone can fuck right off if they try to stop me swearing at them for doing dumb shit. Or more likely, I'll be the one to fuck right off and minimize my exposure to them - since many of them likely have uncontestable social or economic power over me.