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Flirting (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 day ago by electric_nan@lemmy.ml to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

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Hi friends. Is it fucked up to flirt with someone with no intention of taking it further? I'm in a long-term monogamous relationship. Sometimes I crave a little validation from strangers. I'm not going to cheat on my partner, but I do have a need to feel desirable to others. I don't feel like a bit of flirting is a betrayal of my relationship, but I'm less confident about how other people feel. Like, I don't want to waste someone else's time, but I guess maybe I am leading people on a bit if I chat with them without mentioning my partner.

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[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 7 points 16 hours ago

your story sounds indistinguishable from signaling interest to me. he asked you out not to a hotel room, so unless you're leaving out a lot i'm not sure why you're going from 0 to sex act there.