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There's a lot to gleen from why the person is asking the question. It's not a good faith question. They already have their answer. I wouldn't engage it other than to ask another question like "why do you ask?" or "why does it matter?"
Hey, like I said, I'm only trying to know more.
I know it's a very sensitive question and could be malicious depending on the intentions of a person.
So, if it hurt you, I'm really sorry.
Why would I be hurt? I don't think it's a good faith question most of the time. Which is why I gave the answer I did.
Oh alr
I think a lot of cis people share this curiosity.
It is a statement not a question.