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(I'm just trying to learn. No hidden mockery in this and this is no gotcha bs aimed at t women. I'm NOT transphobic. Just saw this in a debate and wanted to know other people's thoughts)

I just want to know:

  1. Is this factually correct?
  2. If it is, does it matter? Why or why not?
  3. How would you logically respond to this?
  4. How does this statement not contradict with Trans Women are Women
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[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 30 minutes ago

They are genetically.
How they feel/identify is their problem

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 30 minutes ago

shrug. I mean its true but so.

[–] Bazell@lemmy.zip 1 points 39 minutes ago

Would ask to provide separate definitions for woman, man, male and female. We can't jump to conclusions about someone's statement before seeing the whole picture of what is happening in his mind.

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 1 points 53 minutes ago* (last edited 52 minutes ago)

In general, please don’t ask loaded, third-rail questions on !asklemmy@lemmy.ml, because

  1. it’s a PITA for mods, and
  2. that’s not what the community is for:. It’s supposed to be a clone of r/askreddit.
[–] dangling_cat@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (2 children)

It’s extremely ~~hairy~~ messy to define biological sex. Whoever wants to argue has a middle school level understanding of biology, refuse to learn and completely ignores the science.

See gender spectrum chart

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

It’s extremely hairy to define biological sex.

Doubly so after puberty.

[–] Karl@literature.cafe 1 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

It’s extremely hairy to define biological sex.

Ermm.. What is that sentence dude?

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago

In this context, "hairy" can mean "tricky" or "difficult".

Fixed… -w-

[–] RiverRock@lemmy.ml 15 points 5 hours ago

"You're biologically a loser lmao"

[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Depends on who's saying it. For most people it's just not worth saying anything. Anything you say goes in one ear and out the other

If they seem like they're asking in good faith or I just want to practice my rhetoric, I'll ask what they mean by "biologically male." Chromosomally, maybe. Hormonally? Maybe not. Breast cancer doesn't care about your chromosomes.

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, biology is a fucking mess is the thing. I happen to be aware of a medical condition a woman can have where they literally have male chromosomes but completely female sexual characteristics.

[–] Bazell@lemmy.zip 1 points 35 minutes ago

I believe that this is some specific case of hermaphrodity you have described. I know cases when people can have undeveloped or even partially developed organs of other sex and don't even know about them until a doctor finds it during a random body scan or surgery.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 hours ago

Follow up question:

"And why does it have any importance for you the presence or not of some chromosomes, so you need to be so explicit about it?"

[–] mech@feddit.org 12 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I wouldn't engage in discussion with people saying that. Nothing good can come from it, and they probably aren't people worth spending time with.

[–] Karl@literature.cafe 8 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

That's true. But if they're babbling about that to a number of people, they might be mislead into believing their bs. If I knew a proper response, I could call their bs out.

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Bazell@lemmy.zip 1 points 18 minutes ago* (last edited 18 minutes ago)

Incorrect approach. This action would actually lower you intellectually over them. And will create 2 possible outcomes. A: person will start lawfully acting in self defense and will attack you back. B: person will call the police on you and for them only your aggressive actions will matter. Both are not good for you. More correct approaches would be to either ignore a person or engage in discussion.

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Because this feels like a loaded statement, I'd respond like this: Biology makes mistakes. Biology is fallible. To frame this about biology is not sufficiently complex to address the issue.

  1. Talk to experts.
  2. The initial statement seems to me is that of a culture warrior, not a curious mind. Therefore it doesn't matter to me.
  3. Compassion doesn't require logic. But if you want sonething slightly logical: I don't understand quantum physics either. I'm reliably informed it exists. Me being unable to grasp the uncertainty principle leaves me feeling uneasy and frustrated. Others may feel in a comparable way about gender identity. It's okay to admit that you don't get it. I don't fully understand it either. It's not okay to be an asshole about it.
  4. Apples to rotten pears.
[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 hours ago

There was a famous physicist. Maybe Einstein or Feynman who said to the effect "anyone who claims to understand quantum mechanics most certainly does not"

[–] GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 14 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Are eunuchs biologically agender?

Are intersex people with chimerism or cryptorchidism biologically two genders at once?

Are women who have had hysterectomies biologically male?

The answer to all of the above is, and I say this with all the respect in the world, a resounding 'no.'

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

They meant DNA not organs intact

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 6 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

there are many types of chromosomes outside of xy and xx. and they are about as common as being trans. shit, its fairly common for karyotype tests to come back with only an x for people past a certain age, a lot of people lose their second sex chromosome over time. this would make many people have an unverifiable 'birth sex' beyond just what is physically in their pants

even if i did have an xy chromosome (i dont even know if i do) being biologically male or female is nebulous. "biological men" dont have big feminine tits and estrogen in them for decades, but i do. so at minimum i am something not phenotypically or biologically male or female despite identifying as a trans woman

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 1 points 32 minutes ago

I was only explaining what they meant, not conjecture. There's like 40+ DNA xy type variants...there's an info graphic somewhere. Biology DNA would also be different than phenotype oresented.

[–] Zangoose@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

DNA isn't perfect either though. It's possible to be AMAB with XX chromosomes and AFAB with XY chromosomes (both still having the "correct" fully functional organs for their assigned gender). Some intersex people can also have multiple sets of DNA, some being XX and some being XY.

Neatly fitting all cases of biology into 2 categories like that is basically impossible anyway regardless of how you do it. "Biologically male/female" is basically impossible to define without also excluding some people that were born into each category. They're fundamentally useless terms that don't actually convey anything meaningful..

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 1 points 31 minutes ago

There's an info graphic somewhere with like 40+ variants and how they manifest

[–] Karl@literature.cafe 3 points 6 hours ago

Thank you so much.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 25 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Biological sex (male, female, intersex) refers to the physical aspects of your body, such as primary sex characteristics (reproductive organs), secondary sex characteristics (body hair, breasts, fat distribution, etc), hormone levels (estrogen, testosterone), and chromosomes.

Gender (man, woman, nonbinary, other terms) is more about an internal sense of self, how you see yourself and how you want your body to be, as well as what social category you belong in.

A trans woman is a person who was biologically male at birth, but sees herself as a woman/wants her body to align with her gender (woman). Not all trans women medically transition, and that's ok, but for those who do, it can change various aspects of their biological sex, such as hormone levels and secondary sex characteristics, so it may not be entirely true to say that trans women (post transition) are biologically male either.

[–] Karl@literature.cafe 8 points 6 hours ago

I was really scared to ask this question lol. But I needed to know. Thank you so much. That about sums it up.

[–] Naich@piefed.world 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

There are about 20 different ways of assigning someone a description of "male" or "female" - examples are the gametes someone produces, their genitals, their hormone levels, or how their brains are wired. Other species can have more than 2 genders or change from one gender to another, and it could be argued that mushrooms have hundreds of them. There are also organisms which have both male and female characteristics in the same body - in some cases, they have both genitals. The natural world is a messy place when it comes to gender, and there are no rules.

Humans like to define things, give them names and put them in neat little boxes, but nature isn't like that. Nature doesn't give a fuck that humans like to assign people one gender or another. Nature creates people who have some male and some female characteristics because there is no natural rule that says everything has to be one or the other. A person with male genitals can have a brain wired up in a female style. Their brain says they are female, but they were defined as male at birth. These are the people who society fails miserably in its rigid adherence to the philosophy of male/female, in a world where this distinction does not actually exist.

The words "biologically male" are loaded, creating an assumption that such a thing is easily definable, and that a person must be one gender or another. This is simply not the case.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Humans don't fit neatly into a male bucket and a female bucket. I'm not interested in discyssing this with anyone unless they're referring to studies from scientists and medical professionals who actually have some knowledge behind their statements.

[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 8 points 7 hours ago

It would depend on the context. The response depends on who is asking, their openness to learn and the reason for the statement. In isolation, it appears inflammatory rather than factual. It can be both.

[–] ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I would say that is comparing personal identity to a medical definition, two independent and separate concepts.

Personally, I look at people pointing this out like I look at people that feel the need to point out to others that a woman has breast implants. It's her choice to do what she wants to her own body and pointing it out makes you look like a rude asshole.

[–] gray@lemmy.ml 7 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Edit: forgot point 3

There are many different perspectives on this. I subscribe to the old Judith Butler perspective that sex=gender and they are both a social construct.

  1. No, biological gender is not in the sphere of facts. Chromosomes, genitalia, hormones and biology in general are in the realm of facts. Lumping them together into the category "sex" is social construction and not scientific (at least not part of natural science).
  2. I don't think it is.
  3. See above.
  4. Trans women are simply women who were not designated as such at birth. No need to mix in biology. Therefore no contradiction.
[–] Karl@literature.cafe 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] gray@lemmy.ml 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I want to add that the phrase "biological male/female" is often used for othering trans people. I know no useful purpose for the term and I suggest you avoid using it too.

[–] Karl@literature.cafe 4 points 5 hours ago

Yes. After all, all this is argument is only about words and lacking terminology.

[–] Ziggurat@jlai.lu 5 points 7 hours ago

I would answer what's a biological male?and at which point you're one anymore?

The question feels already hard to answer, and I am not sure there is a consensus on it.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
  1. "Biologically fe/male" is a pseudoscientific term created to delegitimize trans individuals, so

  2. It does not matter

  3. see above

  4. It's intended to be a contradiction, an insidious doubt or caveat that delegitimizes the declaration that trans individuals are who they say they are.

Don't fall for it. Don't perpetuate it. Delete this post, is my advice.

[–] andrewrgross@slrpnk.net 6 points 4 hours ago

I would second all of this, except for the suggestion to delete it. It's a common question.

To reiterate, "biologically male" means very little scientifically. Sex in biology is far more complicated than most people understand.

It doesn't matter, because when we discuss gender socially, we're not describing reproductive capabilities. We don't stop calling women women when they go through menopause, for instance.

If someone wants to debate it, say no thanks. It's a waste of your time. If someone asks in good faith, you can explain it if you feel capable, or shrug and say you're not really sure, but it doesn't matter.

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