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choosing your own name should be the norm
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I wonder how many cis people hate their names but never change it because it's not socially acceptable to do so.
The main thing stopping me is that I don't want to upset my parents. I don't dislike it that much either so it's not really a problem, but in the absence of that concern , I probably would change it.
I'm in a similar situation, it's a hard thing to tell your parents that you don't want the name they gave you, most parents will push back on it or outright refuse to respect it. It's an example of how unhealthy the nuclear family dynamic is in our culture.
Though I want to change my last name as well, but to my paternal grandmother's maiden name (which is also my current middle name) so I'm still keeping that one in the family.