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Lemmy users lack nuace and it stops actual discussion.
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this post was submitted on 08 Feb 2024
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I mean you're right, but I found the same on other platforms.
I think being contrarian just feels like engagement. When you're taking a shit beating on some commenter about how bad capitalism is a quick hit.
I think the format of most social media encourages this type of simple pre-thought positions on things.
My exact thought. This isn’t a lemmy thing, it’s an internet thing.
I really don’t have much of the experience OP is talking about either, but that’s largely due to the feed I’ve curated. Either that or I’m the problem lol. But in general, I tend to have pretty good interactions for the most part, unless I’m feeling feisty and start something.
I'm on /all constantly, and I agree with you. People are fine. I don't really know where people get the idea to post these things. I think they might browse all, see a bunch of posts from /antiwork, or /fuckcars, or /aboringdystopia, or /linuxmemes, and then complain that they only see those things. It's probably confirmation bias, and if they used frontpage instead and actually followed spaces they were interested in they wouldn't have these problems.
To me, it's like complaining about sex at an orgy. The point of the platform, and reddit, and most other forms of social media, is to curate a feed that suits you. If you don't do that, it isn't the platforms fault if it then doesn't suit you.