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Hello everyone! First of all, I'd like to say thank you to every one of you for your support! Our community is about to be the first user-made one to reach 1K users/week on this instance. And our friends over at Ask Lemmy and Mildly Infuriating are following very closely, which is just as amazing!

We're all working together to establish healthy communities and a friendly atmosphere here. And over at !NoStupidQuestions, we believe that all our members should have a say in what we do & how we do it.

Do you see anything wrong with our rules? Would you like anything removed and/or added? Do you think Rule 6 is useful and good for the community? Do you want a discord server or a matrix chat room?

Please feel free to ask any questions you might have & share your suggestions and ideas!

With Love,

!NoStupidQuestions Mod Team

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[-] Rakn@discuss.tchncs.de 33 points 1 year ago

I’m not on lemmy.world, but I’d just like to say that im always sad when I see communities using Discord for communication. It’s the exact opposite of lemmy. And if one considers the current Reddit measures as harsh, they are pretty soft compared to Discords stance on such matters. Information that goes in there is basically lost. So go the entire way with Matrix.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

We did! You can join our matrix chat room by following directions at our sidebar :)

[-] BrikoX@vlemmy.net 18 points 1 year ago

Do you want a discord server or a matrix chat room?

Matrix.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We actually do have an experimental one on matrix! On fluffychat to be more specific. Would you like to join before it's established fully? Still trying to work things out

[-] BrikoX@vlemmy.net 6 points 1 year ago

Sure. I added my Matrix handle to the profile which you can see by clicking Send secure message.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Will do! You can also put in the link #nostupidquestions:matrix.org on the search bar.

[-] c7plumbcrazy@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

Stupid question, couldn't resist. On Jerboa, I am not seeing the link to the rules. Gonna look around a bit more.

[-] whatyousaidontwitter@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago

On the community page, click on the up right 3 dots, then community info.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Hello there! On our community page, open the menu on top right. You can view our rules by selecting "Community Info" :)

[-] Dick_Justice@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Rule 6 seems useful and almost needed for any community, barring any abuse of the tag obviously.

[-] davidv7@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yes, give me buttons for /subscribed and whatever the other one is. Also, I miss the dopamine rush of that notification counter going up.

[-] JunkMuffler@lemmy.one 7 points 1 year ago

Excited to be here! The rules look good. I suspect rule 5 is the most important and also the one that will get tested the most.

Don’t try to negotiate with bad actors. Just fucking kick them.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Thank you. Welcome aboard! :)

[-] kerneltux@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

All the rules seem reasonable to me, I think #6 is good to have & fine the way it's written. Just joined Lemmy a few days ago, so still acclimatizing.

[-] tallwookie@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

no complaints thus far, interesting take on the what is/ask forum. I like to look at & occasionally answer

[-] sparklingsquirrel@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

The rules seem good to me, including Nr 6. I also like it that you are looking out for your community and want to provide a great atmosphere here.

[-] PPXTering@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

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Can agree

[-] ulu_mulu@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Congratz!! Amazing to see this growth.

Rules look fine to me, I also appreciate a lot that you're asking the community <3

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Thank you! We've all seen what toxic moderators meant back in Reddit. Whatever they did to put themselves first and hurt their users, we should be doing the exact opposite here. :)

[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I don't think removing hateful people will be as big of an issue as it was on reddit though, since the mod log is public by default, and it's more likely they'll just be all driven back into a defederated hiding place somewhere.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

We agree with you margot robbie. Lemmy.world in general has policies that prevent toxicity sitewide.

[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

It's a very delicate balance to mod, you want people to feel free to express their different opinions without getting their comments instantly removed, but you also want to keep the assholes who only comes to upset people out (a small minority, for sure, but they should not feel welcome to spew their venom everywhere).

I'd say rules are ultimately just guidelines, but you should always be flexible, but fair with the rules, and then people will stay here.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

They are absolutely meant to be guidelines. Some of our rules exist only to warn people of danger and have no causation, some there to provide extra freedom posting, and some are there to strictly restrict the certain types of behavior you described. We should indeed always stay friendly and reasonable before all.

[-] guyman@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I think it's important to acknowledge that users also have the ability to block those they deem unsavory. Usually when it doubt, I'd err on the side of letting users make decisions for themselves. Who gets to say what other people should see? Blocking people also prevents them from making new accounts because they're unlikely to realize they're blocked.

[-] bl4ckblooc@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I think rule 7 needs to be updated a little bit; that is how Reddit started banning people for hating on Nazis

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

The wording can be modified a bit. Saying "any group or any of our members in ANY way" gives it a rather broad meaning, which I can see could be maliciously interpreted if somebody wanted to. We could just define the banned behavior in clearer words instead. Thanks for the suggestion.

[-] bl4ckblooc@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

You are welcome, that is exactly how I got banned from Reddit lol

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Rule 7 has been updated.

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[-] Boiglenoight@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Improve the default themes. The dark theme is so hard on the eyes, it's likely to turn away people whose first impression is that. It needs to have a more legible font choice against that background, as is it's a strain on the eyes. The white theme is pretty good.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We are not developers.

Oh, are you talking about our community banner?

[-] Boiglenoight@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Speaking about the CSS used in the dark theme. Am I the only one who finds it tough to read? 🤔

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Oh haha. I think it's fine to be honest. Did you try the different dark theme options?

[-] Boiglenoight@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah. If I'm the only one, nvm. I almost didn't bother with Lemmy when someone first recommended it because I was all "mein eyes!"

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Haha damn :D how do you like the atmosphere though? I think it's really friendly and a fresh breath!

[-] ulu_mulu@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

That's on developers, I don't think there are features that allow mods to have custom CSS for their subs like reddit does.

I agree the dark theme is not very pretty on the eyes, mods can't change it but users can, I've seen some people saying they're working on custom themes users can use, I'm sure we'll have lots of options soon.

[-] Candelestine@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Personally I would address the wording around rule 5. As it stands, it basically just sounds like the lead mod is going "I reserve the right to control the political climate of this community."

I think if you simply elaborated a little more in the description of the rule, and possibly provided examples, it would help allay these fears.

Let's get off on a good, professional footing that inspires seriousness and trust in our userbase, though, instead of a funnier one that encourages goofing off and trolling.

edit: added a couple words

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you for the suggestion! We'll take this into consideration and talk about it soon, and I'll be sure to let you know when/if it's addressed. Happy fediversing!

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Rule 5 has been updated to be more specific.

[-] Candelestine@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Sweet. I would say that new language is very clear and will be difficult for anyone to misunderstand. Thank you.

[-] Kissaki@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

The rule list could use some formatting so they are scannable. Right now every rule is one long text paragraph. If the central words or short summary head were bold it'd be much better UI and UX wise.

It may be worth it to consider or discuss whether certain types of questions that have more fitting alternative communities should be posted there and not here. (General open questions may be better fit on asklemmy. Questions that are not "stupid" either through lack of knowledge or lack of context knowledge or risk of being looked down upon may not belong here.) Although moderating those could become difficult because they may not always be clearly one or the other.

Asking for opinions is not a possibly considered stupid question unless it's something people generally don't have to ask about or shouldn't ask about.

[-] neanderthal@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Rule 2. Get rid of and/or and just use or. https://www.grammarbook.com/blog/effective-writing/what-about-andor/. I don't feel like finding the section in Strunk's Elements of Style.

Rule 8 suggested text: All comments must be relevant to their parent post or comment. Sometimes a comment can raise a topic worth discussing that isn't related to the main post. It is easy enough to just collapse it if you aren't interested.

No Discord. I would go old school and put up an IRC server or use Matrix.

Rule 6. I would require troll questions to be tagged instead of serious questions. Having to specify that you want to use the community for its intended purposes goes against the spirit of the idea that people can ask anything without fear of judgement.

I would get rid of rule 7. Positive communities could sway these individuals away from that stuff. Any bad behavior is already covered by the no sea lioning and no harassment rules.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Rule 7 has been updated to refer to hateful movements, rather than groups in general.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Rules 2 & 8 have been addressed along with some other updates to the draft.

We already have a matrix chat room.

On Rule 6, troll questions already require a tag, and they are only allowed on Friday.

Rule 7, we'd still like to keep extra measures to protect our members, as "swaying away" often happens too late.

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[-] someguy3@lemmy.ca 1 points 7 months ago

I think it's time to unpin this.

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No Stupid Questions

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No such thing. Ask away!

!nostupidquestions is a community dedicated to being helpful and answering each others' questions on various topics.

The rules for posting and commenting, besides the rules defined here for lemmy.world, are as follows:

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Rule 1- All posts must be legitimate questions. All post titles must include a question.

All posts must be legitimate questions, and all post titles must include a question. Questions that are joke or trolling questions, memes, song lyrics as title, etc. are not allowed here. See Rule 6 for all exceptions.



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Your question subject cannot be illegal or NSFW material. You will be warned first, banned second.



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Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here. Breaking this rule will not get you or your post removed, but it will put you at risk, and possibly in danger.



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That's it.



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Questions which, instead of being of an innocuous nature, are specifically intended (based on reports and in the opinion of our crack moderation team) to bait users into ideological wars on charged political topics will be removed and the authors warned - or banned - depending on severity.



Rule 6- Regarding META posts and joke questions.

Provided it is about the community itself, you may post non-question posts using the [META] tag on your post title.

On fridays, you are allowed to post meme and troll questions, on the condition that it's in text format only, and conforms with our other rules. These posts MUST include the [NSQ Friday] tag in their title.

If you post a serious question on friday and are looking only for legitimate answers, then please include the [Serious] tag on your post. Irrelevant replies will then be removed by moderators.



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If you intentionally annoy, mock, harass, or discriminate against any individual member, you will be removed.

Likewise, if you are a member, sympathiser or a resemblant of a movement that is known to largely hate, mock, discriminate against, and/or want to take lives of a group of people, and you were provably vocal about your hate, then you will be banned on sight.



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