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submitted 2 years ago by dessalines@lemmy.ml to c/lemmy@lemmy.ml

Rule #2 is possibly our most important one:

Be respectful. Everyone should feel welcome here.

Learn to disagree without being rude or disrespectful.

It can be difficult sometimes, since western social media thrives on collective outrage, and they knowingly ingrain this into us for years. But please do adhere to this rule, and it will make this place much more enjoyable.

We will not hesitate to issue temp bans (usually a day or two) for those who make everyone's experience unpleasant.Hit the report button if you see this behavior.

Thanks!

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[-] rationalistfaith@lemmy.ml 14 points 2 years ago

Lots of redditors are coming out of echo-chambers. In fact most of reddit has become one starting from a suffocating top-down control.

They've forgotten how Reddit used to be and so are astounded at how "uncomfortable" Lemmy is given its NON-pyramid like structure.

The discomfort is how the world and free speech needs to be and I'm a non-white Muslim typing this.

None of us is 100% right so we should always be exposed to other POVs and question ourselves to keep ourselves in check and evolve in objective ways.

I hope Lemmy keeps it this way and the money doesn't corrupt things as it always does. Believe you me, advertisers and nefarious actors are already reaching out to Lemmy authors to do exactly that.

[-] Zevena@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I am like a veteran to this site because i joined 3 years before new people moved to here

I agree with this post and I think that its important to have a post like this to remind people.

[-] smartwater0897@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago

First thing I read on Lemmy and it's like I've found emotionally intelligent people finally.

I saw the same thing on Mastadon, just normal people capable of handling their emotions.

Western social media (and television) is promoting the worst in people and it can make users believe everyone is insane. So it's very nice to see this being posted.

Thanks!

[-] Ryobee@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

I really like the fediverse. I made a Mastodon account after Elon bought Twitter, because it was pretty clear he was disingenuous. On one hand, he said he wanted to "promote free speech" but on the other hand it seemed like he was focusing on one particular kind of speech (i.e. bigotry). It's nice to see posts like this saying that lemmy hopes to be a different form of social media.

But... I can't help but feel like there may be a similar disingenuous story going on, as much as I hate to say it. I want the fediverse to grow into a safe place for anyone to express themselves. And it's hard to see that happening when the developers (and moderators of the original instance, lemmy.ml) are unapologetic authoritarians. When they say they want people to be respectful, there seems to be a double meaning. After all, banning people for talking about human rights violations doesn't seem to be conducive to an open, honest platform where people can express themselves. The developers of lemmy are, sadly, committed to the ideas of old-school authoritarian governments. And I worry that's going to be a damaging force in what could have otherwise been a wonderful platform. Just my two cents.

[-] bigbox@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago

It's nice to have a place where I can ask genuine questions without being called a complete idiot just for asking.

[-] caribou@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

"YOU" are not your argument. Disagreement is not an attack on you as an individual and should not be taken as such.

[-] calcifer@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Why do you hate me and attack me so ruthlessly 😭

[-] 7eter@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago

this! I hope we stay such a friendly and open-minded community where one doesn't have to fear to say/write their thoughts.

[-] Liempong_pagong@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Good luck with that. Knowing were the exodus has come from. We can start vetting the new users but this is not proven effective.

Malicious reporting can also become a problem if we start being trigger happy on banning users.

[-] 7eter@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago

That is of course quiet a difficult task. And will be very much in the hands of the moderators. Just like the countless mods that voluntarily keept reddit running. I'am quiet positive that we cant accomplish that even better here.

[-] nullthegrey@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Good advice for life outside in the real world as well whenever possible. You can disagree without going thrermonuclear.

[-] Yimila@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I don't agree with this but I respect your opinion

[-] calcifer@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Sounds pretty fascist to me /s

[-] BrooklynMan@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

I've encountered some people who are not so... respectful with disagreements. I've made use of the report feature, however, it doesn't seem to be of much use.

[-] ImOnADiet@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 years ago

you haven't been entirely respectful in your disagreements either come on now

[-] nothendev@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

This. Stick it instancewide forever

[-] TheBelgian@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 years ago

May I add:

  • "disagreeing is not hating"

Even ChatGPT can get this.

[-] bobs_guns@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 years ago

ChatGPT has more social skills than a lot of people do...

[-] theory@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 years ago

Except when it's about THAT topic, of course...

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

You mean racism, sexism, and homo/transphobia? Yeah. I hear ya on that!

[-] theory@sopuli.xyz 0 points 2 years ago

Only one of those is called in otherwise entirely sane situations

[-] GuyDudeman@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 years ago
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