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[-] BrerChicken@lemmy.world 99 points 11 months ago

Stuff doesn't make us happy, people do. It's always been like that. If we spend less time with people, in person, we will be less happy.

[-] fidodo@lemm.ee 53 points 11 months ago

People are the best and worst part of existence

[-] Ozzy@lemmy.ml 27 points 11 months ago

If you got the right people, you can min max the experience

[-] _danny@lemmy.ml 23 points 11 months ago

And if you have the wrong people, you can max min the experience.

[-] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 41 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Also nature. It's clinically proven that living your life surrounded by barren concrete fucks you up.

People like having pets and growing houseplants, just cuz, and both have been shown to do a lot of good, mentally. But we really should be bringing nature into our cities much more than we do right now.

[-] tryptaminev@feddit.de 18 points 11 months ago

But investors like shiny glass and concrete!

Aside from worsening the mental state by deprivation of nature, it also is more vulnerable to flashfloods, the heat is much worse in summer and the air quality is worse all year round.

[-] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 7 points 11 months ago

Yeah. It's insane how much more tolerable the climate in a park can be, even if less than a block away, its heat hell.

[-] SimplyATable@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

I live near seattle. A friend who grew up in texas visited recently and he was shocked at how many trees were around in the city, and at how clean the air felt

[-] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 2 points 11 months ago

Pictures of Houston seem surreal to me.

[-] anewbeginning@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago

Depends on the people and the context. You could live surrounded by people every day and be completely miserable.

[-] BrerChicken@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

You're right, it's not just "people." What I mean is we need to focus more on our relationships, and on being around the people that make us happy, and less on the things we think will make us happy.

[-] revlayle@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Some stuff makes me happy. Specific stuff. Not just random stuff tho.

[-] EtnaAtsume@lemmy.ml 59 points 11 months ago

Anon discovers the underlying foundation of Buddhism.

[-] sounddrill@lemmy.antemeridiem.xyz 5 points 11 months ago

Good ending: Buddhism

Bad ending: richard stallman fanboy

[-] 001100010010@lemmy.dbzer0.com 44 points 11 months ago
[-] buffalobuffalo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 46 points 11 months ago

"i am depressed

"You have depression."

"thank you doctor"

[-] bassomitron@lemmy.world 26 points 11 months ago

(in the US and uninsured) "See the front desk for your $300 appointment fee."

[-] ElectricCattleman@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

My wife had a wrist issue and went to physical therapy. She did things like squeeze a tennis ball and grip coins between her fingers. We got a bill for $600 per 15 minutes. With insurance it was $1600 for an hour and a half total.

[-] 001100010010@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Lol I mean Anon just uses that word as a synonym to "sad". But no, its not just sadness, it's a disease than can kill you (via suicidal thoughts).

[-] fing3r@feddit.de 30 points 11 months ago

I doubt the „better diet“ part

[-] ElleChaise@kbin.social 23 points 11 months ago

What? You mean Doritos and fried meats aren't better than the meals of royalty?

[-] biddy@feddit.nl 2 points 11 months ago

There's a lot less diseases on modern food

[-] anti_antidote@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

Gout has entered the room

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 22 points 11 months ago

And this is why people get hobbies

[-] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 16 points 11 months ago

That yearning for kilometres

[-] Echolot@kbin.social 14 points 11 months ago
[-] Yondoza@sh.itjust.works 12 points 11 months ago

A lot of us are. It's hard to invent your own purpose. Was probably easier when purpose was thrust upon you (grow or find food or you'll die). I'm not saying life was better in the past. We live in fantastic times but it comes with different challenges. Finding purpose in life is a very real and difficult challenge.

[-] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 11 months ago

better healthcare

I seriously hope he's not american, because that'd be hilarious if so.

[-] SimplyATable@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Depends on where in the US you live

[-] worfamerryman@beehaw.org 9 points 11 months ago

You ever play a video game where you turn on infinite items and health and it suddenly is super boring?

That can happen with life. I bet that’s why so many billionaires are crazy.

[-] Shawdow194@kbin.social 6 points 11 months ago

Haha humans are weird

[-] arvere@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago

where does this guy get his dating apps? lol

[-] xptiger@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago

It's not about the everything. It's about what and how you have done with your life: choices, actions, history, experiences, progress, memories and principles you stand and dreams you strive for. Whether you've made good or bad in any aspect or at all, do you truly like the life you journey? At the end, it's all your done, and no one's else should definitely be as you're given your body, abilities, grants and chances all just to make what's on your mind come true on your own (force/will). It's stupid to regret after you miss or abuse or reject the opportunities you had or probabilities you knew. All you have to do is move forward and do yourself better and find ways to truly achieve and fulfill if you still want and never give up.

[-] purahna@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 11 months ago
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