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[-] 6mementomori@lemmy.world 274 points 11 months ago

that is just sad. yet so many will say sexism does not exist

[-] 001100010010@lemmy.dbzer0.com 181 points 11 months ago

Pretty sure racism is also involved

[-] ReiRose@lemmy.world 42 points 11 months ago

Intersectionality

[-] tquid@kbin.social 28 points 11 months ago

It's as if, like, if you are a woman, and also in a disfavoured racial category, like, where they, uh, have overlap? Where they meet? It's not the same as either one individually but its own, I guess nexus? I feel like there's a better word for this

[-] Mercival@lemm.ee 33 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

There's a somewhat niche, but clever word for this particular combo - misogynoir

Coined by Moya Bailey in 2010

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[-] Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 42 points 11 months ago

This is also common in the guitar community. Some women can shred like mofos, and here comes Jim-Bob McGraw saying their playing is tracked etc., ad nauseum

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[-] Clbull@lemmy.world 24 points 11 months ago

Yeah, online gaming has all but confirmed to me that sexism is very alive and well.

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[-] HeavenAndHell@lemmy.world 150 points 11 months ago

Claims to be able to program in C++, Java

"Pfft yeah probably only in Hello World"

No that's Elon Musk. He's full of shit. This Victoria Secret model can actually do something.

[-] Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world 33 points 11 months ago

Nah Elon is not that useless, he knows how to change twitter's icon

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[-] VanillaGorilla@kbin.social 128 points 11 months ago

I was so glad we had a woman join our dev team some months ago. It's more fun, more relaxed and we are able to get better results as we just cover a wider area of skills. People gatekeeping programming to include only men are idiots.

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 47 points 11 months ago

That poor girl. My gf's only female teammate quit last month and i suggested she start grinding leetcode asap. Could you imagine being the only woman on a team? Pretty strong indicator that something is very wrong there.

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[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 116 points 11 months ago

It's annoying sometimes that people just assume that those who don't work in tech are completely clueless about tech.

It's also really funny to mess with people who assumes that.

[-] PupBiru@kbin.social 102 points 11 months ago

as someone who works in tech, the number of people who think they know about tech and are actually completely full of shit dramatically outweighs the people who don’t work in tech and do know what they’re talking about. it can take a lot of energy to differentiate the 2 groups

dunning krueger is at play a lot, because most people use a computer every day and think they know everything about the internet because they know what DNS stands for and typed a command to flush the DNS cache this one time and it worked

[-] BigNote@lemm.ee 30 points 11 months ago

This mirrors the experience of anyone who has studied linguistics.

Because everyone speaks at least one language fluently, they tend to assume that they understand how languages work, while having zero awareness of the fact that people have spent generations studying language and communication at the PhD level and that almost nothing about what we reflexively intuit about language actually holds true.

And I say this as a purely amateur linguistics nerd who does not claim any real formal expertise in terms of academic credentials.

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[-] 2ez@lemmy.world 100 points 11 months ago

Some fragile male egos in this thread. Looking forward to your complaints about the Barbie movie. Sad and pathetic.

[-] Akasazh@feddit.nl 58 points 11 months ago

I don't know what you're talking about. For me the fragile egos are way down the thread, all massively downvoted. The absolute majority is supportive.

[-] letsgocrazy@lemm.ee 27 points 11 months ago

People are addicted to rage.

A few arseholes on twitter saying negative things sets a chain reaction of rage to all those who are addicted to their own emotions.

The mature thing to do in all cases is to let it go.

It's also worth noting that the original comments could be aimed at the fact she is a model, and not because she is a woman.

#zoolander

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[-] Cubes@lemm.ee 96 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Tbf, the original photo was already discounting her abilities. Saying "can program code" for a lead SWE is saying like "can do calculus" for physicist.

[-] odium@programming.dev 34 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

In their defense, maybe the post was written by some journalist with no technical background at all and doesn't know the difference.

[-] spez_@lemmy.world 24 points 11 months ago

Journalists are expected to do better. Otherwise, just hire anyone because even someone without any formal education could do better

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[-] ApeCavalryArt@lemmy.world 79 points 11 months ago

Whenever I see someone taking down these absolute bottom of the barrel incel dork on social media, it just feels like shoo-ing a squirrel off the bird feeder. Just not even worth taking action

[-] nepenthes@lemmy.world 69 points 11 months ago

IMO, it's always worth it because you dont know who is reading this: I imagine some young or teenage girls might see this-- imagine how they feel when they read the disparaging comments from the incels. Pretty dejected, I'd think. Then imagine how they feel when they read the model/engineer's reply. It also shows boys what shite behaviour is.

It's never a waste to shut the misogynists down-- it's like investing in your future.

[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 42 points 11 months ago

I'm with you. We don't argue this stuff to change the original person's mind, we argue it so that other people reading, who might have tendencies to feel that way, or who are the victim of it, get an opposing point of view.

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[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 73 points 11 months ago

I manage a software engineering organization at an aerospace company and if I had to rank all my folks, the women would be disproportionately high on the list. It boggles my mind that anyone would discount someone's programming ability because of their gender.

[-] Jonna@lemmy.world 42 points 11 months ago

"This paper presents the largest study to date on gender bias, where we compare acceptance rates of contributions from men versus women in an open source software community. Surprisingly, our results show that women's contributions tend to be accepted more often than men's. However, women's acceptance rates are higher only when they are not identifiable as women. Our results suggest that although women on GitHub may be more competent overall, bias against them exists" nonetheless.https://peerj.com/preprints/1733/

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[-] Ambiorickx@lemmy.world 71 points 11 months ago

She makes a valid point, but on the other hand, she causes funny feelies in the incels’ pantsal region.

[-] Enasni@lemmy.world 63 points 11 months ago

She a boss fr

[-] macrocephalic@lemmy.world 61 points 11 months ago

Basically they're scared and intimidated. Here is a person who is beautiful and intelligent and has made something of herself and that highlights their own inabilities.

I think sexism is only part of the problem, they'd have a similar response to a male model who had a successful tech career.

[-] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 37 points 11 months ago

I'm not sure tbh. This reeks of a regular techbro sexism, not a regular insecurity. Intelligent male model will be a point of envy, not hate

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[-] weariedfae@lemmy.world 57 points 11 months ago

ITT: basically a reddit comment section on a post with any woman.

Guess the "it feels like Lemmy is more positive" days are over. So it goes.

[-] CADmonkey@lemmy.world 33 points 11 months ago

ITT: people getting upvoted for whining about posts from fragile males, while the few such posts are downvoted to oblivion.

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[-] ClamDrinker@lemmy.world 29 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

What are you talking about? Literally every post with more score than yours is positive and mocking the bigots in the post.

If anything a statement like this reminds me of reddit where <1% has voted and commented but some bad takes are already attributed to the other 99%. (But the good comments are also way older than your post...)

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[-] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 52 points 11 months ago

Those guys are pathetic

[-] ClarissaXDarjeeling@lemmy.world 52 points 11 months ago

I'd be impressed by anyone who could "Hello, world" in MIPS

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[-] MinusPi@pawb.social 46 points 11 months ago

A hello world in MIPS is impressive by itself.

[-] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.world 39 points 11 months ago

MIPS as in assembly language for MIPS CPUs? If so that's pretty harcore.

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[-] carl_dungeon@lemmy.world 37 points 11 months ago
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[-] havokdj@lemmy.world 33 points 11 months ago

It's almost like they don't know who Ada Lovelace, Grace Hopper, Radia Perlman, etc. are.

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[-] iByteABit@lemm.ee 32 points 11 months ago

What a waste

Yeah it must suck to be able to travel the world and do photoshoots for a living, while also being a software engineer on the side (probably a better one than those commenters too)

[-] randint@feddit.nl 28 points 11 months ago

I admire her. Excelling in two radically different areas.

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[-] Godnroc@lemmy.world 25 points 11 months ago

Intelligent and attractive? Out of my league, gotcha. Best to undermine one of those aspects to attempt to bring her down to my level. Well closer anyways.

[-] riodoro1@lemmy.world 24 points 11 months ago

841st fastest growing company in the us

Weird flex, but ok

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