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If so, why?

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[-] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yes, we live in a world were many serious people with serious credetrials can't see lasting. and people go to a Taylor Swift concert or a Football game

"I see no way out of revolutionary changes to how we live today .... it is too late for non-radical futures" - Professor Kevin Anderson

https://social.rebellion.global/@ScientistRebellion/110235597189756736

https://www.theguardian.com/world/article/2024/may/07/un-expert-human-rights-climate-crisis-economy

Outgoing special rapporteur David Boyd says ‘there’s something wrong with our brains that we can’t understand how grave this is’

I am a stranger in a strange land

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[-] TheBigBrother@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago
[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Do not smoke crack. I love you.

[-] Zdvarko@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Following on from the previous person's travelling lifestyle and only working when they want to work, and work on things that they want to, I have children young children which makes it a little more difficult. However, there have been times in my life when I've just packed up, jumped in my vehicle and driven wherever. It's very liberating.

This type of thinking may come from my near death accident 23 years ago or maybe it's a personal trait that I've always had, don't know. Personally speaking, believing in the system that's presented to us from a very young age is not healthy for society or yourself, sometimes you just need to embrace the fear of uncertainty and go for it.

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[-] Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago

No, I live in the same reality as everyone else but I feel like my grasp of it is generally more accurate than that of an average person, what ever that means. I see people (myself included) as rather predictable biological "robots" that are pushed around by their primitive wants and emotions while pretending to have agency over all the good things happening to them and blaming the world for all the rest. I don't beliefe in free will in the sense that most people think about it. As in "you could have done otherwise". It's not just a philosophical concept I like but something I truly believe in and live by. There's no going back once you take that pill. You can't help but see the world and people differently after that and I mean it in a good way.

[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I celebrate your grasp of the real. I love you.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Pppfff heck yeah.

Pretty good example is my lifestyle.

I travel perpetually. I saved money for several years, invested it, budget the interest, and don't work unless I want to.

For years, when my lifestyle comes up, people often say something like "I wish I could do that" or "I've always wanted to travel". After I say "you definitely can", they ask me how they can do it.

When I explain how simple and cheap it is to work less/travel, they 1) get angry or 2) dismissive.

Their stated goals haven't changed, they still claim to want to travel and stop working, but after hearing that they can do it at any point, they shut down or say "well, maybe one day...", which means that after years of living a lifestyle they're dissatisfied with, they're going to choose to continue their confining lifestyle.

Usually in real life they insist they "could never", but online they seem more comfortable condemning any quick or simple solution to working too much and being depressed/poor/trapped in their life.

Other travelers I meet say the same thing, that they can only travel for a limited time, but the allienation is more stark with people who I know more personally.

I'll go traveling, and each time I visit old friends hear the same "wow, what, how?", then "must be nice" and "I could never" stuff I've heard year after a year from the same people.

I haven't brought up my lifestyle on my own initiative in years because I've experienced over and over how upset people become when they realize that they can take control of their lives at any point and are choosing not to.

[-] rikudou@lemmings.world 3 points 1 week ago

So any advice on how to do it? Sounds intriguing. Not that I'd want to have that lifestyle, but still curious.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

There are tons of ways, teaching English overseas, trick out an RV and add solar, digital nomad, it really depends on the interests of the person.

The nice thing is that many options take almost no training or prep time.

They're right there to take advantage of.

What do you mean you wouldn't want to have that lifestyle, traveling or not working?

[-] rikudou@lemmings.world 2 points 1 week ago

Both, tbh. I'm not a workaholic, but I really like my work, so I'd get bored if I didn't work. And I have a pretty sweet work-life balance.

Travelling I like of course, but not too often, I have a really expensive mattress to help alleviate my chronic back pain and sleeping somewhere else is not a pleasant experience. So doing it once in a while is fine, doing it regularly would suck.

And last but not least, lately I like my peace and quiet, constant travelling would not go well with that.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

It isn't that you stop working, it's that you stop working on things you don't want to work on.

You work only on things you want to work on.

Traveling is all about peace and quiet for me, but I hear similar preconceived anxieties pretty often.

Maybe 5 days ago or something, a friend called me up, said they wish they could travel, and asked me to walk them through it again.

I told them how to get a visa (One page online application form, five minutes tops), and they said traveling just sounds so tiring and they can't do it right now.

Tiring?

Hang out, do whatever you want or relax, go eat sometimes.

Not an exhausting lifestyle, but a lot of my friends with day jobs imagine that their lunch breaks are more recuperative than having a lunch break all day.

Bonkers.

[-] rikudou@lemmings.world 2 points 1 week ago

I wouldn't really call chronic back pain a preconceived anxiety, but you do you.

Just accept that your lifestyle isn't good for everyone. You found something that works well for you, congrats! Doesn't mean you found some huge secret on how to make everyone's life better.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The preconceived notion that travelling is tiring.

Why do you think my lifestyle is good for everyone?

I did find this huge secret, and people don't like knowing how easily they can/could have achieved their goals.

They go on the attack as soon as they realize they've been wasting time.

[-] rikudou@lemmings.world 1 points 1 week ago

I mean, I've travelled a bit and it is tiring. For me. It might not be for you, but really, your experience is not other people's experience.

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[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I would never stop working. I enjoy what I do and I find it fulfilling. Nevertheless. I love you.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

That's cool. You can still work when you want to, I do.

Do you build?

I rarely receive that response, and I think when I have it's exclusively from someone who builds houses or something like that.

[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I do build, but I build systems, not buildings.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Cool.

Creative endeavors are where it's at.

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[-] snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago
[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I celebrate your normalcy. I love you.

[-] Today@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago
[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Sometimes. I get it. I love you.

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