My partner is experiencing having mental clarity for the first time she can remember after starting a trial of meds based on a recent ADHD diagnosis. This is a good thing and I'm very happy for her.
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Woohoo!!! Love hearing about mental health (and other health) improvements π
Went out and got a cheap laptop for TAFE. Super easy, barely an inconvenience.
Got a coffee for a treat as well :3
Holy fuck it's cold. Getting out of bed at 2 degrees sucks even if you're working from home lol Have a great day everyone β€οΈ
Iβd like to report an updateβ¦
Chookβs flight feathers have definitely grown back. He just zoomed around my head
Going to bed now even though I know I probably won't fall asleep until like 11. Bed too comfy looking I been fantasising all day about climbing back in. Will put a solid dent into my current audiobook: 11.22.63, which has been excellent so far
ok dudes, I'm off for a walk in the park and a little shopping , later π
Well this is fun. We have an intruder at my worksite and weβre under lockdown now.
Well Iβm in my car at the moment and no oneβs allowed entry I presume until they resolve this.
Depending on the nature of the worksite, that's a pretty risky move by the intruder! My workplace is mostly occupied by menopausal women with sharp objects.
Well mine is a female dominated industry but it wasn't that this time.
Just an update though, the situation is now resolved and we're allowed to come back on site. Everyone is safe and ok and unharmed.
The fake audience/cheering on the triathlon is so cringe. It's looping over and over again -- the race will take nearly two hours.
It's become apparent to me some of my problems at work are coming from my manager's poor communication skills.
It's time to move on in my own terms before that decision is made for me.
Found this Maggie in our front yard just now, and Iβm not sure if thereβs something wrong with it or not. Itβs not at all scared of us, and I got quite close (<1m) with no reaction. Itβs eaten a few salada crumbs and had a drink, but does look a bit bunched, and is just staying in the yard. Is it worth calling wildlife rescue? OH thinks we should leave it and see how it goes.
Leave and see how it goes. If it's still there tomorrow, then maybe call rescue. This is early pairing up season for maggies, so it might just have been tossed out of the parental nest/territory.
Melbcat didnβt eat her meal and spat out her syringed meds this morning - right down the inside of my sleeve! Thankfully sheβs finished her antibiotics but she still needs her pain meds.
hugs to Melbcat
might be a strange question, but any time I figure out something about myself mental health wise its almost always a "Oh shit. Its THAT easy?" kind of thing. It always seems SO obvious in retrospect! Curious to see if anyone else has the same thing happen to them.
For example: if you're always telling mates to take a deep breath have a sit and let things come to them, then you go and actually do it yourself and you're like "fuck, that was the key all along?!"
@TinyBreak @Seagoon_ This probably isn't quite what you're looking for, but it does involve a phobia.
I'm a little scared of heights, and a lot scared of falling off ladders.
The last place I lived was an old cream-brick 1960s-ish flat. It had really high ceilings, with that "popcorn" (possibly asbestos?) texture.
I was living there by myself.
One day, the light bulb in the living room blew.
This ceiling was high β I could just barely reach it from the second- or third-top rung (and I wasn't game to go any higher).
The light had one of those glass covers that had a screw in the middle, and then a couple of hooks on either side. After about 50-odd years, it was well and truly rusted and didn't want to budge.
Well.
After two goes, taking around half an hour each time, I finally managed to get the bloody cover off.
Then another 30 minutes to get the old bulb out.
Then another 30 minutes to get the new globe in.
After spending around two hours β basically the best part of a Saturday afternoon β trying to change one light globe, I was done. The cover can wait for another day.
Unfortunately, a few weeks later, I got a notice that the real estate agents wanted to do an inspection. The joys of renting!
That weekend, I asked wifey to come over (we hadn't moved in together yet) and help put the cover on.
Ladder out. Clip. Clip. Clip. Screw.
She had the cover back on in, like, two minutes, tops.
I think I might have actually said something along the lines of: "Shit β it's that easy?"
The moral of the story?
Find a handywoman, move in with her, and get wifey to do it π
Welcome to the Daily Chair. All the tacks are out now, all approx 200. I've tidied the work area and am ready to attach the linings, the springs then the padding and covers. Yay.
I have also been buying some tapestry fabrics to make some scatter cushions, 2 big cushions for the big chairs, and two smaller ones for the dining captain chairs.
here are some of the components . I have to staple and sew it all into something resembling a functional supporting seat. There's the wood frame, the webbing, springs, lining fabric and the cover . That grey stuff is the original kapok chair stuffing
Far out this post viral fatigue is fucked. Third day in a row I feel like my brain has been cotton wool all day long. The coffees barely touch me. I really didn't feel too comfortable driving, I felt like I was zoning out way too often. Didn't even help that I got extra sleep because I didn't connect my phone charger properly overnight so it went flat and I slept right past my time to leave.
I really need to (a) fall asleep early and (b) stay asleep tonight... I'm already in bed, fed and showered, I think tonight shall involve podcasts.
E: I've got the warmest possible clothes on and the heater on while under the covers in bed and its still too cold to fall asleep β
Goodnight and good morning. May everyone reading this have a wonderful day.
Under 8 working days until⦠6 working days off. Just about counting down every minute.
Hope we all get some blue sky today!
PSA - Hot Chocolate Festival starts tomorrow at the Yarra Valley, Mornington Peninsula and Great Ocean Road Chocolateries! Usually some pretty fun and zany flavours.
I managed to get a trip to Kmart after the doctor today but really didnβt like any of their trackie daks. They all had the wide rigid elastic waistband high and tight on your stomach and I canβt stand even the suggestion of being squeezed. Or it digging in if you bend. Also the rest of the stuff was ugly.
I donβt want to have to sew my own clothes π
anyone know where I can get giant googly eyes? Like, mug diameter or above. I've mounted my doona hangers and it's googly eyes or moloch.
Do not tempt me, fritz lang I'm already leaning steampunkwards with decor
edit: Amazon gets nothing from me. nothing!
zero sum gratitude thread!
Woke up at bumfuck o'clock and couldn't get back to sleep, but it meant I could get my big daily walk in before work and thus I blew past 10,000 steps before 11am.
This morning I had to use a fork to undo a knot in my shoelaces and I feel both proud and embarrassed.
Goodnight all. I think I've just had enough of today. See you in the morning!
Anti-gratitude thread.
Sleep still shit and the sleep debt is compounding.
The cleaning fairies still haven't appeared and it seems I may have to do more bloody housework.
The agency for which I submitted a FOI Request under Section 39 has not given me a response within 30 days, so that probably means I'll have to go to VCATβwhich is something I really don't want to do.
I'm having a pretty good day today. I hope everyone here has at least one moment of joy today.
Gratitude thread!
My manager offered me a shift this morning which was great. I wasn't going to be working at all otherwise.
Also grateful for my aunt's puppy that I saw briefly today.
I appreciate all the wonderful people who spend time contributing to OpenStreetMap. Especially grateful for those who leave notes with photos that allow more technical users to improve the map. The quality of OSM is at times better than Google Maps which makes me really happy to see.
I have a promising job interview lined up for Monday.
And I'm grateful for my heating. And warm socks. Chilly this morning.
Renewing my license seems like it may not be as difficult as I'd worried. Will find out tomorrow morning!